I have a friend that I'm slowly beginning not being able to stand. I really really want to be able to help her because if she's depressed, then I know it isn't her fault she's so angry all the time and etc. But I feel myself constantly getting stressed because of her and always on edge when I'm around her and obviously, this isn't good for me.
I'm always trying to listen and be there for her but this is never returned so I end up just being an ear to listen rather than it be an actual reciprocal friendship.
I don't know what to do because I really want to be there for her but our friendship feels really toxic to me and it's been a really long time since I last enjoyed myself and actually could be relaxed when I'm around her.
Has yours come through yet?