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How to deal with moody/depressed friend? watch

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    I have a friend that I'm slowly beginning not being able to stand. I really really want to be able to help her because if she's depressed, then I know it isn't her fault she's so angry all the time and etc. But I feel myself constantly getting stressed because of her and always on edge when I'm around her and obviously, this isn't good for me.

    I'm always trying to listen and be there for her but this is never returned so I end up just being an ear to listen rather than it be an actual reciprocal friendship.

    I don't know what to do because I really want to be there for her but our friendship feels really toxic to me and it's been a really long time since I last enjoyed myself and actually could be relaxed when I'm around her.

    I think the best thing to do is give yourself some space, and also try and push your friend to get some help, even if it's counselling from the school nurse or whatever. (Idk how old you are) find ways to help your friend cope through stressful situations even if it means sitting in silence this will stop the person putting it on you. Good luck! Hope I helped
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