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    I am an average looking girl. I have dark hair and brown eyes. I'm quite introverted and awkward so I can't really connect with people easily, at least not without alcohol. I was in a club and I noticed a guy who was absolutely astonishing, totally out of my league. I was quite intoxicated by that point, so when my best friend dared me to talk to him I did it with little discomfort. Surprisingly we hit it off and he seemed to be really interested in me despite the fact that there were other, prettier, girls than me. He invited me over to his place, but I refused. He took it well and only kissed me goodbye. My question is, why would a guy like that be into me at all? I can't stop thinking about him and i have his phone number but he hasn't texted and I'm not sure if I should text him first.
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    No-one is out of anyone's league, you're just (clearly) extremely insecure.

    Only insecure people think that attractive people should and do only date other attractive people... plus attraction is subjective anyway, you might be an 8/10 to him


    Also wtf does your hair and eye colour have to do with anything? Lol
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    How old are you?
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      (Original post by eden3)
      Also wtf does your hair and eye colour have to do with anything? Lol
      Brown eyes are the least attractive colour.

      If you have brown eyes, you are basically doomed to be single forever.
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      He obviously seems to think that he's not out of your league.

      Be happy that someone is into you. You can make it work, just text him first.
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      (Original post by FriendlyPenguin)
      Brown eyes are the least attractive colour.

      If you have brown eyes, you are basically doomed to be single forever.
      Can't tell if you're joking or not lol
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      That’s the beauty of the FA Cup.

      Non League teams playing premier league giants.
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      (Original post by merlin451)
      I am an average looking girl. I have dark hair and brown eyes. I'm quite introverted and awkward so I can't really connect with people easily, at least not without alcohol. I was in a club and I noticed a guy who was absolutely astonishing, totally out of my league. I was quite intoxicated by that point, so when my best friend dared me to talk to him I did it with little discomfort. Surprisingly we hit it off and he seemed to be really interested in me despite the fact that there were other, prettier, girls than me. He invited me over to his place, but I refused. He took it well and only kissed me goodbye. My question is, why would a guy like that be into me at all? I can't stop thinking about him and i have his phone number but he hasn't texted and I'm not sure if I should text him first.
      Just text him. He may be worried that you don't like him (since you rejected his offer and all), but so if you do then why not text him? Can always see how it goes.
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      (Original post by FriendlyPenguin)
      Brown eyes are the least attractive colour.

      If you have brown eyes, you are basically doomed to be single forever.
      great why can't i have heterochromia
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      I'm a 10.

      Why did you not want to go with him if you find him to be astonishing? Be srs too. You'd go with Channing Tatum right? Why why whyyyyy.
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      (Original post by RockyDennis)
      I'm a 10.



      I thought you said in other threads that you were ugly


      attention seeking much?
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      I thought you said in other threads that you were ugly


      attention seeking much?
      Well I'm slightly neurotic.
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      (Original post by FriendlyPenguin)
      Brown eyes are the least attractive colour.

      If you have brown eyes, you are basically doomed to be single forever.
      i have brown eyes :cry2:
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      tbh most guys are out of my league

      BUUTTTT, youve gotta remember, He himself chose to be with you, if he didnt like you, he wouldnt be here, be confident that hes into you!!

      also text him first! we're in the 21st century, show a little confidence and do it! Guys like that
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      (Original post by merlin451)
      I am an average looking girl. I have dark hair and brown eyes. I'm quite introverted and awkward so I can't really connect with people easily, at least not without alcohol. I was in a club and I noticed a guy who was absolutely astonishing, totally out of my league. I was quite intoxicated by that point, so when my best friend dared me to talk to him I did it with little discomfort. Surprisingly we hit it off and he seemed to be really interested in me despite the fact that there were other, prettier, girls than me. He invited me over to his place, but I refused. He took it well and only kissed me goodbye. My question is, why would a guy like that be into me at all? I can't stop thinking about him and i have his phone number but he hasn't texted and I'm not sure if I should text him first.
      Your third sentence basically explains why the first two are wrong. I have the same problem though and that won't change for me anytime soon
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      If you think he’s into you, go for it and text him! I’d be delighted if a girl who I was attracted to wanted to get in touch, and from what you’ve said it sounds like he is attracted to you. Everyone’s attracted to different types of people.
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      A man and a woman like each other and have the potential to have a great relationship, but some made-up social construct of "leagues" prevents this joy from ever happening. Sad world.
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      Really no such thing as leagues, if you like him and he likes you too just go for it.
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      Text him first. Don’t be so insecure about yourself, I bet your so beautiful and any guy would be lucky to go out with you
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        (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
        i have brown eyes :cry2:
        Ugh. And only a grey squirrel too. Not even one of those nice red ones!

        :unimpressed:
       
       
       
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