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    I know it isn't what you want to hear, but are you sure this guy is worth it? It sounds like only you are doing anything, and he doesn't put as much effort into the relationship or communicating with you. It could be that he is genuinely busy but he should consider your feelings and try to talk, or at least give an explanation as to why he acts this way. It doesn't help that he is in another country as well - the distance keeps you apart in reality and you can only communicate online.

    You have to ask yourself, what do you want from this relationship and what future do you see for the two of you. You need to talk to this guy and figure this out.
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    (Original post by gigi77774)
    All I want to do is to have one last conversation but he wont let me..He is avoiding me as much as possible and I feel like the more I try to get into contact with him the more I am making things worse.
    I am a broken soul and I feel so low but I dont want to blame him for making me feel this way. I am trying to talk to him but he is avoiding me how would I get past that? Thank you for your reply btw
    There is no way to make him talk to you if he doesn't want to. I don't think you should keep hanging onto the idea of this, or of you and him together. Do you have friends who support you? Why not keep yourself busy with your friends and your hobbies? Find what makes you happy outside of him and distract your mind from thinking about him. With time, it will hurt less. The way he treated you was awful, he doesn't deserve to affect the rest of your life.
 
 
 
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