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    I was talking to this guy years ago, I mean at least three years ago. We went on one date and it went really well up until the end when it got a bit awkward and unfortunately we stopped talking after this.

    I thought about him the other day and decided to follow him on insta, he followed back straight away and we've started messaging again. I would really like to meet up with him and see if we can have another go of it. Would it be weird after all this time to suggest this? Should I wait for him to suggest it? Or is it possible that he is only messaging back out of politeness?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking to this guy years ago, I mean at least three years ago. We went on one date and it went really well up until the end when it got a bit awkward and unfortunately we stopped talking after this.

    I thought about him the other day and decided to follow him on insta, he followed back straight away and we've started messaging again. I would really like to meet up with him and see if we can have another go of it. Would it be weird after all this time to suggest this? Should I wait for him to suggest it? Or is it possible that he is only messaging back out of politeness?
    It could be that he's just texting you back out of politeness or nostalgia. But it doesn't hurt to ask.
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    No, I don't think it is. Both of you would have changed and matured in that time enough for it to have some worth to it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was talking to this guy years ago, I mean at least three years ago. We went on one date and it went really well up until the end when it got a bit awkward and unfortunately we stopped talking after this.

    I thought about him the other day and decided to follow him on insta, he followed back straight away and we've started messaging again. I would really like to meet up with him and see if we can have another go of it. Would it be weird after all this time to suggest this? Should I wait for him to suggest it? Or is it possible that he is only messaging back out of politeness?
    3 years?

    That's nothing

    Try 7 MUAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHA

    (yes im a weirdo yes she rejected me )
 
 
 
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