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    We used to tease each other a lot, I'm sure she liked me. However I was moving away. But we had chemistry

    Fast forward 4 months, havnt spoken to her.

    How would I message her asking for a date?
    Just say "hi how are you?"
    Wait for her reply and pop the question?

    I'm gonna assume she is single as none of her social media indicate otherwise
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    We used to tease each other a lot, I'm sure she liked me. However I was moving away. But we had chemistry

    Fast forward 4 months, havnt spoken to her.

    How would I message her asking for a date?
    Just say "hi how are you?"
    Wait for her reply and pop the question?

    I'm gonna assume she is single as none of her social media indicate otherwise
    chemistry ?? u better be talking about the subject

    and reply, if u play hard to get for too long u might lose her interest
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    Well find out a little bit about her now before you do anything
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    We used to tease each other a lot, I'm sure she liked me. However I was moving away. But we had chemistry

    Fast forward 4 months, havnt spoken to her.

    How would I message her asking for a date?
    Just say "hi how are you?"
    Wait for her reply and pop the question?

    I'm gonna assume she is single as none of her social media indicate otherwise
    you need to ease into it, you cant just ask her out out of nowhere after 4 months

    ask what shes up to first these days and joke she must have a bf by now to check shes single

    then ask when shes free
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    (Original post by Equanimous)
    you need to ease into it, you cant just ask her out out of nowhere after 4 months

    ask what shes up to first these days and joke she must have a bf by now to check shes single

    then ask when shes free
    So basically get some small talk going, about what she been doing since uni,
    Maybe get some of the old inside jokes we had

    How can I get the BF joke in smoothly?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So basically get some small talk going, about what she been doing since uni,
    Maybe get some of the old inside jokes we had

    How can I get the BF joke in smoothly?
    2 ways

    both use a joke by assumption

    say 'so is your bf ok with you talking to me, he isn't a control freak right?'

    or

    after complimenting her on something say 'ah your bf is a lucky guy'

    obviously she then confirms about the bf after or says she doesnt have one
 
 
 
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