I’ve recently been seeing this guy and we haven’t had sex but we’ve done some things. However, I’ve noticed every time he fingers me I will have very bad and tight stomach cramps the next day and I’m not sure why. I have googled it and it suggested that it could be due to the muscles that aren’t normally used in that way or wind, although I don’t feel like I have wind? They usually disappear by the afternoon but they last over an hour and are really quite painful. Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated.
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