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So I was using an app to talk to females but a guy messaged me and I started talking to him but not inappropriately. He said he was out and I replied with a picture of me in bed under my blanket. I accidentally sent a screenshot of that to my boyfriend. I told him the picture was a year old but I'm wearing the same shirt.... he knows I lied but how do i tell him that my conversation was innocent and that I'm sorry I lied to him?
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(Original post by AmandaKl1987)
how do i tell him that my conversation was innocent
it doesnt sound innocent tho so theres no way you can play that off

(Original post by AmandaKl1987)
and that I'm sorry I lied yo him?
realistically his trust levels in you will drop no matter what you say, just say you won't ever do it again and acknowledge you did the wrong thing
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You need to come clean, don't ever lie in situations like that because it will catch up with you.
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My boyfriend also lives another country right now so telling him over video chat is devastating. I'm supposed to marry this man in a month. And I truly do love him and would do anything for him. It was innocent I wasnt being dirty just talking. I'm just lost I don't know what do
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Tell him the truth?

TSR is generally harsh to men who are disloyal to their women.
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It's just over video chat though??? I'm really upset that I lied. It's eating away at me but I just don't want to lose him even though that is possible. I feel awful that I did this.
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If I found out my husband was talking to women on an app, inappropriately or not, and sending pictures of himself to them, I would flip my absolute lid.

Are you sure you want to marry this guy?
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If I found out my husband was talking to women on an app, inappropriately or not, and sending pictures of himself to them, I would flip my absolute lid.

Are you sure you want to marry this guy?
Yes I'm sure I want to marry him. I'm lonely but not looking for someone to hold me. He lives in mexico and recently got a job so we don't talk as much. I was definitely looking for attention. I feel awful because it's a form of betrayal but I didn't cheat and yea I would get mad too but I would forgive depending on the nature of the conversation. I've never lied to him so I just feel awful.
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