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    I am in my first year of university, feeling comfortable with my studies but feel I am missing out on the social life. I do go to societies and talks, but I don't actually know anyone there. At the moment I am feeling a bit low, because it feels like everyone has at least one friend. I did speak to people at the beginning and felt like I had 'friends', but I was the only one making an effort. I always tried to involve them, but they never tried to involve me. Now I've just given up trying. Another thing that makes it difficult is I don't like partying or drinking - feel pretty lonely.
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    Tough situation there bud :L

    All I can really suggest is trying to be a bit more outgoing and starting conversations with people you've never spoken to before at your societies and follow that up by texting them. That should hopefully be the start of a good friendship
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    I'm in the same situation, the first 1-2 weeks I felt like I had found a group of people, but now everyone kind of just went their way and I'm left alone. I also tried to go to talks & societies, gave my best to be outgoing, but everyone there seemed to already have a group, so my efforts were unsuccessful.
    So I'm feeling you, feeling pretty down rn. But I guess it's only been a few weeks and we have to hang in and keep on trying to start conversations - even it that seems really discouraging atm
 
 
 
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