I am in my first year of university, feeling comfortable with my studies but feel I am missing out on the social life. I do go to societies and talks, but I don't actually know anyone there. At the moment I am feeling a bit low, because it feels like everyone has at least one friend. I did speak to people at the beginning and felt like I had 'friends', but I was the only one making an effort. I always tried to involve them, but they never tried to involve me. Now I've just given up trying. Another thing that makes it difficult is I don't like partying or drinking - feel pretty lonely.