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    So I started at uni a few months ago and I made friends with this girl on my corridor on my course. She's introverted (no BFFs etc) although I am a party lass and we do rly click etc. because we have similar interests, but though she claims to be a "feminist" etc and is really smart I have started to hate her, am I just being *****y?

    She is pretty (blonde, curvy and wears a full face of makeup etc) but she ****s off other people all the time for their appearance etc and is negative. Like if she describes even the landlord of the pub we hang out she'll say really mean stuff like "he has a face like dog ****". Or if a girl like one of the girls in our halls is really high maintenance and girly etc. she'll constantly gossip about that girl is "always wearing high heels" etc. even if that girl is nice. Or she'll do stuff like make fun of our female lecturer bc she got "hysterical" when a spider got in the room.

    Also she's insecure, I'm not sure if it's because she's out of shape (shes not fat but like a bit "curvy" tbh, chubby) but she goes to the gym with me and it annoys me how she acts like shes not serious. Shes always wearing a full face of makeup there, and glares at all the really hot girls who train there from the uni sports teams, including one who dated her ex boyfriend lol.

    Am I being shallow like I dont want to hang w her any more lel but Idk how to tell her?
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    I understand you wouldn't want to hang out with someone who is always negative towards others, I think the best thing I can think of is to hang out with some one she doesn't like that much, it will stop the awkwardness of you telling her that you don't want to stay around her anymore
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    She's not really a "feminist" if she's slating other girls for how they dress or how they look
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    (Original post by bones-mccoy)
    She's not really a "feminist" if she's slating other girls for how they dress or how they look
    Feminists are more obsessed with how women look then anyone else

    https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...ism-body-image

    https://www.stylist.co.uk/life/were-...iet-free/60297

    https://feministfrequency.com/video/...er-seductress/

    i could go on
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      (Original post by bones-mccoy)
      She's not really a "feminist" if she's slating other girls for how they dress or how they look
      #uAintNoFeministBruv

      Anyway, I thought feminism meant equality of men and women, not actually just females banding together and only attacking men.
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      Feminism is about equality but now a days its more like female dominance.
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      So I started at uni a few months ago and I made friends with this girl on my corridor on my course. She's introverted (no BFFs etc) although I am a party lass and we do rly click etc. because we have similar interests, but though she claims to be a "feminist" etc and is really smart I have started to hate her, am I just being *****y?

      She is pretty (blonde, curvy and wears a full face of makeup etc) but she ****s off other people all the time for their appearance etc and is negative. Like if she describes even the landlord of the pub we hang out she'll say really mean stuff like "he has a face like dog ****". Or if a girl like one of the girls in our halls is really high maintenance and girly etc. she'll constantly gossip about that girl is "always wearing high heels" etc. even if that girl is nice. Or she'll do stuff like make fun of our female lecturer bc she got "hysterical" when a spider got in the room.

      Also she's insecure, I'm not sure if it's because she's out of shape (shes not fat but like a bit "curvy" tbh, chubby) but she goes to the gym with me and it annoys me how she acts like shes not serious. Shes always wearing a full face of makeup there, and glares at all the really hot girls who train there from the uni sports teams, including one who dated her ex boyfriend lol.

      Am I being shallow like I dont want to hang w her any more lel but Idk how to tell her?
      You should talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. Do you have any other friends?
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      Middle class white women are the worst demographic on earth :rofl:
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      If you hate her then don't be her friend? No ones forcing you to be friends with her.
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      Sounds like a feminist alright
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