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    i sent nudes to this boy in a different school and he has screen recorded it and sent it to everyone now they are trying to make a page to ruin my life .
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    (Original post by xoxox.turtles)
    i sent nudes to this boy in a different school and he has screen recorded it and sent it to everyone now they are trying to make a page to ruin my life .
    If you're underage you should point out to him that he could get charged for possession and distribution of child pornography (it counts) and that you don't want to get the police involved but you could.
    Obviously you would also be implicated for distribution, but it would end the spread.
    Hopefully if you tell the appropriate responsible adults it can be sorted out, at this point you mustn't be embarrassed and have to do everything you can to get the pictures out of circulation. The sooner you act the less it will have been circulated.
    A good rule of thumb is just to never send nudes, it's a bit of a meme, but tbh it's not worth it. Once you send a photo you lose ownership.
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    Ok if you're a trolll then do one if you're real then breathe x

    This happened to me when I was 14 the whole school saw 😄 it wasn't that bad but my closest friends were like omg so I asked my boyfriend at the time to delete my account I gave him the password :lol: hopefully he didn't keep the photos because otherwise they're history and no one uses MySpace so yea 🙏 the data should be gone. :ninjagirl: if the photos are spread I'll know exactly who they are who's responsible though...and one girl who everyone knew was bisexual put my photo to her page and said I'm her girl so I told her crazy ass to remove it but yea nothing else irregular. Well one girl called me a stank ho but I pummeled her and she was nice after so yea.
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    Nothing much to do honestly.
    You sent pictures of yourself to him, fully well knowing the damage that can be done by sending nudes.
    You should have known this when you were naked taking a picture of yourself.
    Talk to a teacher or a responsible adult and try to resolve the situation through them.
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    (Original post by StealingThunder)
    If you're underage you should point out to him that he could get charged for possession and distribution of child pornography (it counts) and that you don't want to get the police involved but you could.
    Obviously you would also be implicated for distribution, but it would end the spread.
    Hopefully if you tell the appropriate responsible adults it can be sorted out, at this point you mustn't be embarrassed and have to do everything you can to get the pictures out of circulation. The sooner you act the less it will have been circulated.
    A good rule of thumb is just to never send nudes, it's a bit of a meme, but tbh it's not worth it. Once you send a photo you lose ownership.
    Omg that's a good point!! So if people post my photos it's illegal because I was 14 when I did it. Now I wish those morher****as would...


    now. So relieved!! And I can even sue for sexual harassment on top like bribing me to do stuff or show my nudes. Omg thank you.
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    (Original post by Boiboiboi111)
    Nothing much to do honestly.
    You sent pictures of yourself to him, fully well knowing the damage that can be done by sending nudes.
    You should have known this when you were naked taking a picture of yourself.
    Talk to a teacher or a responsible adult and try to resolve the situation through them.
    At the end of the day teenagers are children and they have serious lack of reasoning and understanding. People honestly just don't get it at that age.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    At the end of the day teenagers are children and they have serious lack of reasoning and understanding. People honestly just don't get it at that age.
    was gonna disagree but then recalled my brother bought Jacob Sartotithing songs
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    Omg that's a good point!! So if people post my photos it's illegal because I was 14 when I did it. Now I wish those morher****as would...


    now. So relieved!! And I can even sue for sexual harassment on top like bribing me to do stuff or show my nudes. Omg thank you.
    I mean, I'm not sure you'd have a strong legal case. You would also be implicated in distribution of child pornography as you sent the original photo. But, in a situation when it's currently being circulated it's a worthwhile avenue just to stop the circulation, even if you have to admit guilt too.
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    (Original post by kaytoner)
    was gonna disagree but then recalled my brother bought Jacob Sartotithing songs
    What the...who is that! 😄
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    At the end of the day teenagers are children and they have serious lack of reasoning and understanding. People honestly just don't get it at that age.
    Surely the OP can’t be younger than 15 and already sharing nudes, so this reply is me having a rough guess that the OP is 15(?).

    Once someone reaches the age of 15 or even 14, they fully well know what to do and what not to do when in situations like this.
    Teenagers aren’t children anymore, they have a sense of understanding.
    I’m not saying that i 100% blame a teen for sending a cheeky pic to someone else they like, it’s understandable.
    However to say the have a lack of understanding isn’t very true.
    Getting undressed and holding a camera up to yourself gives you a fairly decent amount of time to decide whether you want to go through with sending the picture. In other words I highly doubt that the OP didn’t have a sense of understanding and reasoning.
    Also keep in mind that the boy was from another school, and so increases the risk of the image being spread around.
    If she’s any younger than 15 (my estimate of the OP’s age) then why she is sending nudes to another person at such a young age is beyond me.
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    (Original post by StealingThunder)
    I mean, I'm not sure you'd have a strong legal case. You would also be implicated in distribution of child pornography as you sent the original photo. But, in a situation when it's currently being circulated it's a worthwhile avenue just to stop the circulation, even if you have to admit guilt too.
    What I didn't send it. I uploaded to my page privately. The guys friended me and posted the photos. pretty sure since I was 14 that's illegal if they continue to do it.
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    What I didn't send it. I uploaded to my page privately. The guys friended me and posted the photos. pretty sure since I was 14 that's illegal if they continue to do it.
    I mean you can try, but as soon as you have a photo of someone underage (including yourself) it counts as possession of child pornography, and if you then send it in any form, it counts as distribution. But definitely if they're still distributing you should tell them it's illegal.
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    (Original post by xoxox.turtles)
    i sent nudes to this boy in a different school and he has screen recorded it and sent it to everyone now they are trying to make a page to ruin my life .
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    (Original post by xoxox.turtles)
    i sent nudes to this boy in a different school and he has screen recorded it and sent it to everyone now they are trying to make a page to ruin my life .
    what a sick ****!! I think what you should do is that if it is an instagram page report it as many times as you can until it gets deleted, try to get an adult who understands to help you!
    and don't blame yourself for it, hopefully this will all stop and you will feel better, we all make mistakes but be sure to learn from them!
    tbh I sent nudes before to this guy in school, luckily he didn't post them online but he did show his friends, however i learnt from that day is that you should really know who to trust about these things, preferably someone you have been with for such a long time and you know wouldn't betray you.
    for now, I'm hoping all of this will end soon.
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    That’s known as revenge porn and now carries a jail sentence in the UK. Perhaps remind him of that.
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    Why are half the posters here being such sanctimonious pricks? She's [likely] just a kid who boobed [pardon the pun] it's hardly a rarity for teenagers to send nudes to each other so stop being dicks to the OP.

    OP - aside from elevating it to teacher/police there isn't much you can do i'm afraid bar asking ordering fb [or whom ever] to remove them. With that being said you could take the more unconventional approach and try and embrace the leak, try to take the wind from their sails as it were.
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    (Original post by StealingThunder)
    I mean you can try, but as soon as you have a photo of someone underage (including yourself) it counts as possession of child pornography, and if you then send it in any form, it counts as distribution. But definitely if they're still distributing you should tell them it's illegal.
    (Original post by Plantagenet Crown)
    That’s known as revenge porn and now carries a jail sentence in the UK. Perhaps remind him of that.
 
 
 
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