Is "The Perfect Man" out there?

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Well...I guess it seems a littl pathetic! But sometimes I get thinking about what I really want from life. And I can't say I don't want to meet the man of my dreams. The thing is...once or twice I've met someone and thought they were perfect (aside from the few little things that bugged me!) but then I realise that they're not.

So...if no one's perfect...then there simply isn't such thing as "The Perfect Man"...so...what do I do now?!

Lol!

I'm not going to go crazy after any guys...if I'm honest, I just don't have the time or energy...

Gosh this is a ramble!!

Anyway..I'm calling all you girls (and guys!) to let me know if there is such thing as true love with a perfect(ish) man??

=] have fun!!

Reply 1

person 34

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No there isn't the "Persfect man" out there and the sooner you realise, the better. Some guys are great but none of them are perfect. Relationships are a hard slog but you should get some lovin' and security in return. Well that's the theory anyway.

Reply 2

fairycakes

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you can't have perfect in that sense. there are imperfections that make you learn to love that in turn make the perfect man for you. but i think it's unrealistic and not helpful to look for a 'perfect' man. you'll only get disppointed. not that i am saying it can't ever happen.

Reply 3

I Wanna Be Adored

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I think I'm about as close as it gets...

In all honesty, about 3 billion men out there, ok- they aren't perfect, not one of them, but I reckon you can find a half decent bloke in your lifetime, love. No need to panic, we're all young, naive, and pretty much stupid. Once you realise what you want from life, dare I say, stop dreaming, then he'll come along, sweep you off your feet and you'll disappear in to the sunset...

Reply 4

CJPT89

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People think I'm gay most of the time simply because of how I am and my personality/interests. When they find out I'm not I'm often told I'm a 'perfect guy'. I see that as very odd personally because I'm quite oversensitive and I am prone to irrational tantrums loooool

Find one of those. Also, you can NEVER go wrong with geeky guys, I've heard that many times from girls.

Reply 5

Stace-is-Ace

OP

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Lol! I've already said that I realise there's no "perfect" guy...but I mean...there's bound to be someone who's pretty close...I guess I'm just slightly worried that the ones I've let get away were the best! Oops!

Also...I'm pretty sure I'll always be a dreamer! =P

Reply 6

Stace-is-Ace

OP

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Oh! Do not talk to me about "camp" guys...I totally surround myself with them...whether they're actually gay or not! They really are pretty awesome...or at least the ones I know are! =]

Reply 7

Dionysus

15

Sorry hun, there's no such thing. However, you will hopefully know when you find a guy who's as good as you're going to get.

Reply 8

randomgirl

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Dionysus

Sorry hun, there's no such thing. However, you will hopefully know when you find a guy who's as good as you're going to get.

Ja, that ^

Reply 9

Prudy

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I think your not finding the perfect guy (in reality, the perfect guy for you of course!) is nothing more sinister than an indication that they weren't right for you. Don't get downheartend and carry on looking! :smile:

Reply 10

h82think

14

Although no one is perfect, when you really love someone you look past the imperfections- basically that is why they say love is blind :P

Reply 11

Jelkin

17

Perfect, no. Perfect for you, possibly.

Reply 12

Stace-is-Ace

OP

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Lol! I'm kinda hoping my Prince Charming is too! =P

Reply 13

Duran Duran

Over here ! PM me for address, phone number and other details.

P.S: I'm hoping humility isn't a criterion.

Reply 14

sparkly_woo

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Nobody is perfect, but 'the perfect man' is dependent upon you. When you find someone who is 'nearly perfect' ..and you can learn to except any flaws they may have.. that's as close to 'perfect' as it gets, but I imagine its pretty damn close :biggrin:

Reply 15

Overground

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Jelkin

Perfect, no. Perfect for you, possibly.

Ditto, perfection is subjective

Reply 16

Rutter knows best!

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errr well to be perfection to you, one would have to fairly selfless and therefore soulless.

people have there moments and are never 100% the same all the time.

Reply 17

jenren22

1

I couldnt love a perfect man. It would be like loving a machine. My man isnt perfect, but i love the socks off him.

There is such thing as 'Mr Right', but not 'Mr Perfect'. I found my man when i least expected it. Well, i didnt think anything would come of it at the time anyway.

Reply 18

da_nolo

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Stace-is-Ace

Well...I guess it seems a littl pathetic! But sometimes I get thinking about what I really want from life. And I can't say I don't want to meet the man of my dreams. The thing is...once or twice I've met someone and thought they were perfect (aside from the few little things that bugged me!) but then I realise that they're not.

So...if no one's perfect...then there simply isn't such thing as "The Perfect Man"...so...what do I do now?!

Lol!

I'm not going to go crazy after any guys...if I'm honest, I just don't have the time or energy...

Gosh this is a ramble!!

Anyway..I'm calling all you girls (and guys!) to let me know if there is such thing as true love with a perfect(ish) man??

=] have fun!!

I'd say there could be....in the sense of a guy actually willing and able to love you and he would really be perfect in your own eyes. even with flaws you; you'd be able to look pass it and view him as if those were not even there.

Reply 19

Stace-is-Ace

OP

13

That's what I meant...perfect for me...with silly things wrong with him that I grow to think are cute? Maybe...

Is "The Perfect Man" out there?

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