i decided this would probably fit into the mental health forum even though I don't have any mental health problems but anyway...well, I don't know where to start. I'm autistic, nearly 17 and currently in Year 12. I'm studying AS Levels at my school's sixth form. And I've had enough of feeling alienated from this world. I know there are other people with worse problems out there but I've felt horrible about my disability since December last year. Back then, it got to the point where I felt so low about not having the confidence and inability to socialise properly that I wished my disability away. It's not the lowest point I've been at but I just want to at least pass off as neurotypical so I don't feel as damaged. I'm not at the point where I'd change myself completely like I was, but I'd definitely change my lack of social skills in a heartbeat. Head of sixth form keeps bleating on about university and A-Levels in assemblies whereas I'm just sat there wondering how I'll ever be an adult in this neurotypical world where I can't even hold a simple conversation without having to change the subject 50 times. I can't talk to people without pronouncing something wrong or wording stuff completely stupid or even forgetting what the end of my sentence is. I word stuff so perfectly, so articulately in my head and then it all comes out as goobledygook and nobody understands how frustrating that is! And then there's articles online spouting crap about how bad autism is and it doesn't help your morale. :9
Like I said, it's nothing like what other people are going through but the feelings of alienation are difficult to put up with when you've got A-Levels to prepare for. And I'm stuck with having no motivation; either that or I have the motivation to do work and then when it comes to it, I bail out. I struggle talking to people about how I feel which is why I'm on here in the first place. Never mind A-Levels...I'd just like to pass off as neurotypical so I can at least not cringe at myself whenever I try and speak to someone. It's so isolating. :L
I just feel so damaged. No point in talking to my head of sixth form because she'll refer me to the Head of SENCO and there's no point in talking to her because she'll refer me to the Safeguarding team and I really do not want to go down that route again. Had counselling in Year 9 and I stopped going just so I could be taken off the list because it does not work for me. Also, the Head of SENCO is patronising anyway and thinks she's the mental health expert. Suggested that two of my friends were attention-seeking...
I was feeling okay this morning but now I'm just sat here hoping my head of sixth form doesn't kill me on Monday for not helping out with Children in Need like I'm supposed to. I just need to get a grip. I know I'm not dealing with the root cause of my problem by hiding my disability completely but it would stop me feeling so broken.