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    I've been talking to a guy on Tinder for a few weeks now and we are planning to go on a date. But since seeing his social media ive noticed that he's really immature (he's 23) and posts stupid things. I know I should get to know him in person but it's kinda putting me off?
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    if we tell you no will you not go on the date?
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    (Original post by Hateocracy)
    if we tell you no will you not go on the date?
    I'm considering just going on the date to see what happens
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    Definitely, definitely go on a date with him. Please, please, please, please do it, lol.
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    Immature in what way?
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    in what way? i'd say just go on one date to see what happens
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    (Original post by chloesaunders1)
    I've been talking to a guy on Tinder for a few weeks now and we are planning to go on a date. But since seeing his social media ive noticed that he's really immature (he's 23) and posts stupid things. I know I should get to know him in person but it's kinda putting me off?
    you're not losing anything by going on the date
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    (Original post by purpleblanket123)
    you're not losing anything by going on the date
    The opportunity cost of her time . . . .
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    a lot of people are childish online though aren't they? just give him one chance, if hes childish on the date then say no to a second
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    you'll only know and find out when you go on the date, sometimes , not for all men, they try and act funny in front of their friends but are actually quite mature when it comes to it! also its about the experience too :yep:

    and its only a tinder date, its not like you have to see them again after it! Go for it and have fun!! let us know what happens
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    (Original post by Nerry)
    a lot of people are childish online though aren't they? just give him one chance, if hes childish on the date then say no to a second
    That's true
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    you'll only know and find out when you go on the date, sometimes , not for all men, they try and act funny in front of their friends but are actually quite mature when it comes to it! also its about the experience too :yep:

    and its only a tinder date, its not like you have to see them again after it! Go for it and have fun!! let us know what happens
    Yeah I think you're right. I'm just gonna go for it!
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    Immature in what way?
    Found a video of him jumping on a car. Which was kinda strange.
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    (Original post by mcpon14)
    Definitely, definitely go on a date with him. Please, please, please, please do it, lol.
    Just to see if he's like that in real life? Haha
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    (Original post by chloesaunders1)
    Found a video of him jumping on a car. Which was kinda strange.
    :lol: yeah that is a bit strange. Though to be fair on him, not very much to go off/no context. Maybe give him a chance. You'll get a clearer picture if you meet him.
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    , not for all men, they try and act funny in front of their friends but are actually quite mature when it comes to it!
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    :hahaha: ... yeah, All men.
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    (Original post by banoffeee)
    :hahaha: ... yeah, All men.
    i was trying not to put her off men :rofl:
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    i was trying not to put her off men :rofl:
    Haha good sport! It is true, they do generally try to show off in front of their mates.

    But yeah, some immaturity is not nec a bad thing, depending on how far they take it and in what situations. Could be a sign of someone fun lovin'.
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    (Original post by banoffeee)
    Haha good sport! It is true, they do generally try to show off in front of their mates.

    But yeah, some immaturity is not nec a bad thing, depending on how far they take it and in what situations. Could be a sign of someone fun lovin'.
    they do and i find it SOOO ANNOYING OMG like there was this one time where i just looked at him and was like 'why are you doing that, stop that'
    its like when a dog is eating something it shouldnt be and it looks at you and starts chewing faster and the next thing you know youre having a battle with your dog to stop it from dying but the only battle here is when youre thinking to yourself 'why am i dating him?'

    nah they should have the balance of mature and immature, like yeah be funny, its great, huge turn on, but like there's a time and place for everything ygm?
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    they do and i find it SOOO ANNOYING OMG like there was this one time where i just looked at him and was like 'why are you doing that, stop that'
    its like when a dog is eating something it shouldnt be and it looks at you and starts chewing faster and the next thing you know youre having a battle with your dog to stop it from dying but the only battle here is when youre thinking to yourself 'why am i dating him?'

    nah they should have the balance of mature and immature, like yeah be funny, its great, huge turn on, but like there's a time and place for everything ygm?
    Haha! Indeed. Suppose they have to irritate you a little or it'd be boring...
 
 
 
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