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On a few occasions, she has looked through my phone (texts, call log, apps). This happens when she's drunk and I guess because she then has the courage to do it.
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From my phone, she once texted a female friend of mine, indirectly asking whether she and I had had sex.
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On one occasion, she has called female friends of mine '*****es' and 'hoes'.
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If I spend time without her, she tells me to 'sleep alone', if I go out for a drink with friends etc..
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One time when I met her father briefly, he had complimented me afterwards to her. When I asked her what he had said, she initially told me, that "I couldn't handle more praise", indirectly claiming that I my self esteem might become a little too much (did she want to keep me down?)
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I once helped a friend of mine from college with an assignment and when I told her (the girl I am dating) about it, the first thing she asked was: Have you slept together?
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Whenever she has the opportunity, she makes fun of and laugh at people behind their backs for any given reason. This seems to be especially prevailing when the 'victim' has had something bad/unlucky happen to them.
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She is sometimes demeaning towards me. She once told me that I shouldn't bother working out, because I'm not the 'bodybuilding type of guy'. Wheneever she does this and I point out how her sarcastic ways doesn't make things better, she will most likely claim she was joking or just ignore it..
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Her inappropriate jokes also contains passive-agressive threats at times: One time she told me that 'we'll never see each other again' and when I didn't answer she once again claimed that she was joking.
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Whenever I do spend time with the afore-mentioned female friends, she asks how 'our date' went. Maybe it's just her way to tackle things, but it makes me feel sad and unhappy, since it's not a date - the only woman I'm dating is her.