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Friend/boyfriend problem
Okay so now you've read the title you're gonna think my boyfriend cheated on me with a friend or something but it's not that kinda problem. So, I've been going out with this amazing guy (Who I am totally in love with) for eight months now and a friend (lets say miss x) has been going out with his friend for like a year. It's really cool cos were all just like mates and take then piss and have a laugh with eachother.
Problem is I have other friends (obviously) and a certain few of them are driving me and miss x (very cool...hah) apsolutely mad. To keep it short they're seriously jelous of me and my friend for having boyfriends and having fun, they're all single and the guys in school pay no (bf/gf type) attention to them. But yesterday I was told of them bitching about me and miss x like crazy, they were taking the piss and mimicing us and saying hurtful things.
I know there jelous and obviously need to grow up because we've done nothing to them and still treet them the same. But I seriously don't know how to act now, I feel guilty about going up and having a conversation with my boyfriend! I don't wanna get into arguments with then about the bitching and stuff but I really don't know what to do and they've seriously got over the top...
Any advise would be greatly appriciated.
Just ignore it.
As you said, they're just jealous, so take it as a complement that you have something special to get so jealous about!
Blank them or just tell them to grow up you really don't need crappy "friends" like that anyway, and you've got your boyf and your cool friend so why the need for immature bitches?!
Don't worry about it, they're not worth it!
As you said, they're just jealous, so take it as a complement that you have something special to get so jealous about!
Blank them or just tell them to grow up you really don't need crappy "friends" like that anyway, and you've got your boyf and your cool friend so why the need for immature bitches?!
Don't worry about it, they're not worth it!
just ignore them.. they're pathetic. you have what they want, so it's obvious they would be a likkle bit jealous. but to be so childish is just sad. tell them to pipe down and grow up
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Just ignore it.
As you said, they're just jealous, so take it as a complement that you have something special to get so jealous about!
Blank them or just tell them to grow up you really don't need crappy "friends" like that anyway, and you've got your boyf and your cool friend so why the need for immature bitches?!
Don't worry about it, they're not worth it!
As you said, they're just jealous, so take it as a complement that you have something special to get so jealous about!
Blank them or just tell them to grow up you really don't need crappy "friends" like that anyway, and you've got your boyf and your cool friend so why the need for immature bitches?!
Don't worry about it, they're not worth it!
Hey i remember talking to you about being an Army dOC. hOWS IT GOING. OP just ignore it. If your happy in your relationship , then surely thats all that matters
I went through exactly the same thing at school, and honestly it was so ridiculous, looking back it makes me laugh.
With me, it was one friend who'd recently been dumped just stirring up a lot of unecessary bitching and everyone else went along with it.
I know exactly how you feel about feeling awkward evening mentioning his name, but its them that have the problem, not you. Jealousy isn't very nice, and nor is a big group of girls bitching- but both always seem to happen!
As everyone else has said, ignore them. I can promise you, they soon tire of it. And its then you realise who you're real friends are.
In my experience, it was the one girl who started it, coming crawling back. But yes honestly, when something else came along, they all soon forgot about it, and until then, try not to worry too much about it, as i said, they're the ones with the problem, not you!
With me, it was one friend who'd recently been dumped just stirring up a lot of unecessary bitching and everyone else went along with it.
I know exactly how you feel about feeling awkward evening mentioning his name, but its them that have the problem, not you. Jealousy isn't very nice, and nor is a big group of girls bitching- but both always seem to happen!
As everyone else has said, ignore them. I can promise you, they soon tire of it. And its then you realise who you're real friends are.
In my experience, it was the one girl who started it, coming crawling back. But yes honestly, when something else came along, they all soon forgot about it, and until then, try not to worry too much about it, as i said, they're the ones with the problem, not you!
I'm the biggest "bros before hos" promoter there ever will be, but I still say don't let them ruin what you've got with this guy, you're obviously crazy about him and so happy 
Girls are mean, and that's life. My advice would be, don't confront them outright; by that I mean, don't go up to their faces and accuse them of more than they may have done, or accuse them of being jealous.
Although it may be true, and it sounds like it is, be the bigger person and don't make the situation worse for yourself. You've done nothing wrong, but be happy, and what's wrong with that??
Girls are mean, and that's life. My advice would be, don't confront them outright; by that I mean, don't go up to their faces and accuse them of more than they may have done, or accuse them of being jealous.
Although it may be true, and it sounds like it is, be the bigger person and don't make the situation worse for yourself. You've done nothing wrong, but be happy, and what's wrong with that??
okay, what they do sucks, but are you sure its just jealousy?? cause if u act towards them with a "they are jealous of me having a bf"-attitude i'd get pretty pissed off too ... i dont know about ur friends but for me nd a couple of mine who are not in relationships, we are just pretty happy the way it is and have a looot of fun this way 
and if someone in a relationship would give me the feeling im kinda inferior cause i neither want nor have a relationship, id get annoyed by that too ...
and if someone in a relationship would give me the feeling im kinda inferior cause i neither want nor have a relationship, id get annoyed by that too ...
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