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advice...

I sure hope this is the right place to be doing this, forgive me if it isnt

Right,
Basically, I've started to have this urge for sex nowadays and it's really starting to affect my everyday activities. It's like I wake up, I'm trying to organise a linkage (waste all my time on that) even while I'm doing this, I know I should stop, but can't....it's like every 20-30 mins probably less than that actually I'm thinking about ****ing.
It's so bad I just noticed I have made it my first priority since I leave everything else to the last minute. To make it worst, aint got a gf @ the moment. I need to focus on something...but don't have a clue.
Try to read, but can't...basically I'm clueless.

Any advice on what to do?

Even ******* aint hacking it...damn!

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Cold showers. And stay away from primary schools.
Will Power and Self control can work wonders.
Reply 3
There has been a documented increase in the number of cases of sex addiction. due to the fact that it is affecting your life/happyness i would sugest you seek out professional help form your GP as a start. hope that helps
bishman
Cold showers. And stay away from primary schools.




true 'dat.
Reply 5
It's so bad I can 2 rounds.

bishman
Cold showers. And stay away from primary schools.


pry schools
joke, aint that bad. I still have brains

regarding the doctor; what will he do?
Reply 6
The Doctor will possibly refer you on to another Health professional e.g. psychologist, counselor
Reply 7
I wonder how akward it would feel, telling the councellor I'm in need of sex asap.

will try to have a bath
Reply 8
Good luck
Try and ration masterbation/looking at porn time? Gradually cut down on it, set yourself a time goal. E.g. once every day, then once every two days or something? maybe that will help?

Heh what do I know. I'm not a horny teenage boy.
Reply 10
actually 20, no teenager.
also haven't seen porn for quite a while now
Reply 11
I don't recommend the doctor. You really don't want to go down the road of having a medical psychological problem. Just deal with it in a practical way.
Masturbate, chat to attractive females, get it out of your system. It's only natural to feel sexually driven, it just seems that you're letting it a bit out of hand.
It will get boring after a while, and just force yourself to busy yourself with other things. I'm sure it's nothing serious.
Reply 12
nice one...cheers y'all
Reply 13
practical way ... it is
l8r
perhaps excessive masturbation would help..? yes I know it's not what other people are reccomending.
See I find if i play about 4 times a day for a while then i get bored and don't do anything for several days. Might not help. and I'm a girl btw so obvisouly i work differently ha.
or, look at pictures of that chick from the gossip. or anyone else you find unattractive :tongue:
or even give yourself a mild electric shock / stub your toe / anything else painful whenever you get those urges. associate horniness with pain. then again that go too far, after all you don't want to turn yourself asexual lol.
Reply 16
Go out and get laid..even if she's ugly. Attention will make most girls jump into bet with you.
i heard about this on the radio today....

apparently common.

and they are blaming net porn.
Reply 18
Whoever suggested an NHS psych has obviously never been refeered to see one. They are crap, and the waiting lists are ridicuous. Don't do it, OP.
Reply 19
angie:nofrills
Go out and get laid..even if she's ugly. Attention will make most girls jump into bet with you.


hmmm..attention; that's a new one.

when you say attention, what do you mean?
make myself obvious?...lol