I have a friend who takes things way too seriously. She accused one of my other friends of being a control freak and how she got jealous whenever she went of to talk to anyone else.
I tried changing the subject so many times but they got into an argument. Then one of my friends (the one who got accused of being a control freak) said something... I think she was just advising her to listen to me and talk about something else. Then my friend who takes things too seriously, said: "I'm not even her mate because she always leaves us for them" By them, she means the friends who are in my lessons who I sometimes hang about with, because they're fun. Then I said: "You accuse her of being a control freak, yet, you always get jealous when I hang around with them-" I didn't even finish and she cut me off. She started raising her voice saying: "No thats different you always leave us" There was a cold silence for a little. Then one of my other friends had a snickers bar and she said to my friend who takes things seriously: "Get some nuts" We all laughed expect her. Then I said: "You're not you when you're hungry" So then, my friend accused me of calling her fat because she already ate. Thats not what I meant. I meant that she was not being her usual bubbly self. But before I could explain she stormed off. Then my other friend said: "That was well tight it's like someone saying to you why do you wear that cast on your hand all the time?" Because I wear a splint on my hand, it's like a cast because I have hand dysplasia so I wear a splint too keep it straight.
I feel really bad, she's not replying to my texts and before I could even go after her the bell went so I had to go to lesson... Was I too harsh on her? I never intended on hurting her feelings.