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does anyone else hate their uni course but are still doing it because they have to?

what the title says...not asking for advice btw. I'm a second year chem student and i find my course very hard, some parts are not interesting at all....i thought about dropping out in first year but then my results turned out pretty good so i kept on. Now i'm quite worried my grades are gonna become bad, but it's too late to drop out as i don't have anything to fall back on which is why i've stayed on

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Original post by Anonymous
what the title says...not asking for advice btw. I'm a second year chem student and i find my course very hard, some parts are not interesting at all....i thought about dropping out in first year but then my results turned out pretty good so i kept on. Now i'm quite worried my grades are gonna become bad, but it's too late to drop out as i don't have anything to fall back on which is why i've stayed on


Yeah I am studying psychology I passed first year alright but am hating second year. I don't know whether I should drop out or not as I don't know what I should do if I did.

I am hanging on at the minute but afraid that my degree will be worthless and I wil end up just doing a normal job like retail or something.

Do you think you will drop out at the end of the year?
Not exactly hating my course but after I started I realised that the uni offered a course that I'd have preferred to do. Currently studying psychology, but the biology course they offer (which annoyingly I would have been accepted onto with my grades) allows you to specialise in neurobiology which would have been so up my street. Shame, and annoying, but I'm already a few years behind in my education so starting over again isn't really much of an option; even worse is that I know it's entirely my fault as I should have done more thorough research before applying to my backup uni. Hey ho, live and learn.
Original post by dsmith23
Not exactly hating my course but after I started I realised that the uni offered a course that I'd have preferred to do. Currently studying psychology, but the biology course they offer (which annoyingly I would have been accepted onto with my grades) allows you to specialise in neurobiology which would have been so up my street. Shame, and annoying, but I'm already a few years behind in my education so starting over again isn't really much of an option; even worse is that I know it's entirely my fault as I should have done more thorough research before applying to my backup uni. Hey ho, live and learn.


I a studying psychology what don't you like about it so far?
Original post by Anonymous
I a studying psychology what don't you like about it so far?


On the whole I do enjoy studying psychology, but my interest lies heavily in the more scientific aspects. So I don't really enjoy social psychology or developmental psychology, and I kind of hate everything to do with qualitative studies (not to say that they aren't scientific... I don't know how to describe it. Those aspects just feel forced and a bit "fluffy").

On the other hand I find the cognitive and biological aspects fascinating and I can't wait to start doing statistics. In 2nd or 3rd year (can't remember which) there's an advanced stats module that combines stats and programming so I'm pumped to get started with that when I can.
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Original post by Anonymous
what the title says...not asking for advice btw. I'm a second year chem student and i find my course very hard, some parts are not interesting at all....i thought about dropping out in first year but then my results turned out pretty good so i kept on. Now i'm quite worried my grades are gonna become bad, but it's too late to drop out as i don't have anything to fall back on which is why i've stayed on


Yes - I had a very similar experience to you. by the mid-point in my 2nd year I really did not like my course.

Keeping on going was the best thing I ever did though. Had I dropped out I would have had to start all over again and I would have waisted 2 years of progression and hard work.

Instead, I kept going, graduated with a decent grade, started working in a sector I am actually interested in, and now 3 years later, alongside working, I am studying a masters that I do actually like.
I honestly couldn't say I liked a single thing about the course I began. But I quit mine in the first year and wish I did so sooner.
Original post by awkwardshortguy
I honestly couldn't say I liked a single thing about the course I began. But I quit mine in the first year and wish I did so sooner.


May I ask what you are doing now?
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Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I am studying psychology I passed first year alright but am hating second year. I don't know whether I should drop out or not as I don't know what I should do if I did.

I am hanging on at the minute but afraid that my degree will be worthless and I wil end up just doing a normal job like retail or something.

Do you think you will drop out at the end of the year?


no i don't think i will, looks like we'll just need to stick at it :/
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Original post by dsmith23
Not exactly hating my course but after I started I realised that the uni offered a course that I'd have preferred to do. Currently studying psychology, but the biology course they offer (which annoyingly I would have been accepted onto with my grades) allows you to specialise in neurobiology which would have been so up my street. Shame, and annoying, but I'm already a few years behind in my education so starting over again isn't really much of an option; even worse is that I know it's entirely my fault as I should have done more thorough research before applying to my backup uni. Hey ho, live and learn.

do you mean you're just a lot older than most people in your year? i don't think it matters that much how old you are and when you started a course
Original post by fallen_acorns
Yes - I had a very similar experience to you. by the mid-point in my 2nd year I really did not like my course.

Keeping on going was the best thing I ever did though. Had I dropped out I would have had to start all over again and I would have waisted 2 years of progression and hard work.

Instead, I kept going, graduated with a decent grade, started working in a sector I am actually interested in, and now 3 years later, alongside working, I am studying a masters that I do actually like.


glad it worked out for you :smile:
Original post by awkwardshortguy
I honestly couldn't say I liked a single thing about the course I began. But I quit mine in the first year and wish I did so sooner.


ahh it's fine to quit in first year, you could still go back if you wanted to
Original post by Anonymous
no i don't think i will, looks like we'll just need to stick at it :/


Yeah I am trying my best to motivate myself studying something I have lost interest in.

Are you in the same situation and how do you keep yourself motivated?
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I am trying my best to motivate myself studying something I have lost interest in.

Are you in the same situation and how do you keep yourself motivated?

yeah i've lost interest in my course as well, just feels like a chore tbh. Idk i guess it's my parents, they never got to go to uni and so they're glad i did, i don't want to disappoint them, and i know it's gonna be hard to get a job if i drop out now so i'm just gonna stick at it, i'll hopefully figure something out
Yeah it is going to be hard to get a job now either way whether you are a graduate or not. I actually think that if everyone wasn't in university they would be unemployed anyway!

It also feels like a chore for me.

The sad thing is the only person I know who has a job lined up is in their final year who has done one internship and managed to get a job with a £35,000 starting salary.

They are from a very wealthy background though which says it all. It is who you know not what you know.

Not a fair world.
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah it is going to be hard to get a job now either way whether you are a graduate or not. I actually think that if everyone wasn't in university they would be unemployed anyway!

It also feels like a chore for me.

The sad thing is the only person I know who has a job lined up is in their final year who has done one internship and managed to get a job with a £35,000 starting salary.

They are from a very wealthy background though which says it all. It is who you know not what you know.

Not a fair world.


yeah exactly, so i'm gonna keep going with the course. £35000 is a lot! i imagine they did have some help if they come from a wealthy background. It really is not fair is it :/
Original post by Anonymous
yeah exactly, so i'm gonna keep going with the course. £35000 is a lot! i imagine they did have some help if they come from a wealthy background. It really is not fair is it :/



Yes I don't think they even had a part time job, any extra curriculars, voluntary work etc. They were able to afford living in London so went to a top university which would have helped.

Just one/two internships and landed the job. Background does play a big part now and who you know as contacts.

Most other people have to do a lot of extra-curriculars, quite a few internships, a part time job, voluntary work just to even have a competitive application.

TBH I would quite like to just have a job in retail after I finish university.

I don't think I will actually use my degree as I can only see myself getting a 2:2 at most. My attendance is like 25% or something most of it is online or in a book so I don't always see the relevance of every lecture.
Original post by Anonymous
Yes I don't think they even had a part time job, any extra curriculars, voluntary work etc. They were able to afford living in London so went to a top university which would have helped.

Just one/two internships and landed the job. Background does play a big part now and who you know as contacts.

Most other people have to do a lot of extra-curriculars, quite a few internships, a part time job, voluntary work just to even have a competitive application.

TBH I would quite like to just have a job in retail after I finish university.

I don't think I will actually use my degree as I can only see myself getting a 2:2 at most. My attendance is like 25% or something most of it is online or in a book so I don't always see the relevance of every lecture.

wow, i mean internships do help but if they don't have anything else i feel like they defo got help, i bet they even got help with getting those internships. Really? retail jobs sound soul destroying though, i can't be in one forever tbh. I don't think i'll end up going into something chemistry related, like that's how bored i am wth it and i think i'll get a 2.2 as well :/
Original post by Anonymous
wow, i mean internships do help but if they don't have anything else i feel like they defo got help, i bet they even got help with getting those internships. Really? retail jobs sound soul destroying though, i can't be in one forever tbh. I don't think i'll end up going into something chemistry related, like that's how bored i am wth it and i think i'll get a 2.2 as well :/


Yes I think they had one interview for an internship got it and then worked there for a month over summer or something then managed to get the job. Those from wealthy/privately educated background with parents in professional jobs seem to have more contacts, ability to pay to live in London or travel for internships. The saying it's not what you know but who you know is very much alive and kicking in today's society.

They didn't really have that much on their CV like everyone else has to do just to get an interview. I also know somebody else who have relatives in India and "worked" under them for a month to gain work experience. It is unfair really when everyone else has to undergo assessments/interviews just to get an internship but if you know somebody high up already you can by pass these.

I think I will do something temporarily like a retail job after university as I know I don't want to enter a psychology related field as I have little passion for my degree. Lots of graduates are underemployed anyway so have to do anything they can get after university.

I have noticed most of university is about a CV building culture where people do things like extra curriculars, voluntary work etc because it "looks good on their CV" or to "boost employability". It all seems a bit fake if that is the only reason people do these activities just to look good in an interview rather than because they are passionate about something. It is just another thing I don't particularly like about university at the moment.

Have you noticed the same thing?
Original post by Anonymous
what the title says...not asking for advice btw. I'm a second year chem student and i find my course very hard, some parts are not interesting at all....i thought about dropping out in first year but then my results turned out pretty good so i kept on. Now i'm quite worried my grades are gonna become bad, but it's too late to drop out as i don't have anything to fall back on which is why i've stayed on


Heya,

Yeah I know how you feel.

I did a Biology undergraduate, which I really didn't like at all.

I just pissed about for the first two years until I realised I wanted to be a physiotherapist. To get onto the postgraduate physiotherapy course, I had to achieve a 2:1, so I knuckled down and worked my ass of for third year (even though I hated it) and got my grades.

I'm starting my physio course in January 2018 :biggrin:

Many roads lead to Rome, my friend.

Keep going, persevere, and you will find your calling in this world :smile:

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