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Please keep anon as I dont like to let this get out in case I get into any trouble.
I really fancy a lecturer at uni at the moment and want to ask him out. Are they allowed to date students or is it similar to school rules? He doesn't teach me but he knows me.
I really fancy a lecturer at uni at the moment and want to ask him out. Are they allowed to date students or is it similar to school rules? He doesn't teach me but he knows me.
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Reply 2
Go and see the discussion on the thread about different reasons for people getting kicked out of Oxford, it turned out Lecturers do go out with students and that its only frowned upon, so neither you nor him will get into trouble just as long as he doesn't teach you.
Reply 3
Uh.. I'm pretty sure he won't be sacked, although it probably won't do him many favours respectability-wise. That's so long as he says yes, of course..
Reply 5
I'm 18.
Reply 6
How olds he around about?
Reply 7
I think it would be a mistake but thats my own personal opinion. Do you know anything about apart from the fact he teaches you? He could be married or engaged, he could have children, etc.
Also It would be frowned upon, and if you did tell him and he isn't interested then that would be awkward.
Also It would be frowned upon, and if you did tell him and he isn't interested then that would be awkward.
Reply 8
I think he's around 30-35. I've been with older people before.
I know that he was married but he's not anymore. As far as I know he's single.
Probably would be awkward but we don't bump into each other every day so it wouldn't be too bad.
I know that he was married but he's not anymore. As far as I know he's single.
Probably would be awkward but we don't bump into each other every day so it wouldn't be too bad.
Reply 9
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I think he's around 30-35. I've been with older people before.
I know that he was married but he's not anymore. As far as I know he's single.
Probably would be awkward but we don't bump into each other every day so it wouldn't be too bad.
I know that he was married but he's not anymore. As far as I know he's single.
Probably would be awkward but we don't bump into each other every day so it wouldn't be too bad.
Do you talk to him at all?
Reply 10
Yeah we bump into each other in the lifts as he teaches in the same block as my lectures. I've sent him a few emails wishing him a merry christmas and happy new year.
Reply 11
If him being a lecturer wasn't the issue, do you honestly think he likes you enough to be in a relationship with you? I'm getting the impression otherwise.
Reply 12
Maybe you should try and get to know him better first before you do anything else.
Reply 14
You know im in an exact situation as u only issue is im too scared to ask him out and hes married 
I called his wife a man by accident since then hes been dodgy , so he changed his wifes picture to a more feminine one...he does love her sniff.
I too would love to date a lecturer but i cant find any one who i have clicked with bleh I have too much high expectations sux really.
When you wished him happy new year and merry xmas what he say ? Was he friendly or was it a general thing like thanks for your wishes same to you blah.
Life sux when it comes to relationships.
Sorry im in a lonely mood sniff
good luck xx
I called his wife a man by accident since then hes been dodgy , so he changed his wifes picture to a more feminine one...he does love her sniff.I too would love to date a lecturer but i cant find any one who i have clicked with bleh I have too much high expectations sux really.
When you wished him happy new year and merry xmas what he say ? Was he friendly or was it a general thing like thanks for your wishes same to you blah.
Life sux when it comes to relationships.
Sorry im in a lonely mood sniff
good luck xx
Reply 17
Aww bless you anon 2.
We do take the pee out of each other through email as we both speak different languages and wind each other up through that.
I've been up to his office a few times and he's made a few dodgy jokes like "Go and sit in the naughty corner."
We do take the pee out of each other through email as we both speak different languages and wind each other up through that.
I've been up to his office a few times and he's made a few dodgy jokes like "Go and sit in the naughty corner."
Reply 18
Just out of curiosity what subject does he lecture?
Reply 19
He tutors French.
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