**** Buddy

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Reply 1

Twinkelidoo

It's great for a while, then one get's more emotionally involved (usually the girl) and it goes to hell...

Reply 2

sarah♥

They're ok if you just want an orgasm I guess...
relationships are much better...

Reply 3

EvilSheep

I wouldn't go there.. Ever..

Reply 4

Hylean

Ain't into **** buddies, don't really care much for sex so the idea seems pointless to me. Give me a girl I can chat to and be comfortable with, thanks.

Reply 5

SmilerNuts

Atomic Tundra

we are supposed to give advice not opinions

Who says? You can give both in H&R you know.

As for the OP - I've done it before and with the right girl I'd probably do it again. Not right now though.

Reply 6

9mm

**** buddies are like candy, you unwrap them, get satisfaction from, then you throw the wrapping in the bin, which is then recycled and re-stuffed to be used again. That's all there is to it really.

Reply 7

username47781

Can be good with the right person, however a lot of them do get messy because someone developes feelings.

Reply 8

SmilerNuts

Aristoteles

**** buddies are like candy, you unwrap them, get satisfaction from, then you throw the wrapping in the bin, which is then recycled and re-stuffed to be used again. That's all there is to it really.

I couldn't help but think of reusing condoms while reading this bit :s:

Reply 9

9mm

SmilerNuts

I couldn't help but think of reusing condoms while reading this bit :s:

Reply 10

Fairy.Dust.Forever

Great in theory.... but unpractical because someone always has an ulterior motive... or develops feelings when they didn't think that was an option. Avoid....

Reply 11

kjstar

SmilerNuts

I couldn't help but think of reusing condoms while reading this bit :s:

exactly wat i thought reading it too...doesnt sound good. and the whole **** buddy thing isnt a nice thought either...not my think atall.

Reply 12

username149848

They are increasingly part of the grey area between something official and something casual. They are supposed to be the latter, but for most people it doesn't end up staying that way.

Reply 13

Jessaay!

*shudders*

Would be a bit dodgy to me, my vagina is a fortress :frown:

Reply 14

SmilerNuts

kjstar

exactly wat i thought reading it too...doesnt sound good. and the whole **** buddy thing isnt a nice thought either...not my think atall.

Jessaay!

*shudders*

Would be a bit dodgy to me, my vagina is a fortress :frown:

How so?

Reply 15

Jessaay!

SmilerNuts

How so?

It was a joke mainly, but in all seriousness, to me it really should be a "fortress", so to speak, and saved for people you're in a loving relationship with rather than just made public property.

Not that genitals are a form of land ownership or anything.

But I don't look down on people with **** buddies or anything, just don't think its for me, I think I'd feel a bit weird.

Reply 16

emdo

I dunno...I mean as long as you can stay unemotionally detached then its all good.

Reply 17

dh00001

well its down to the people really. it can be fun but in my opinon its invariable someone starts to want more.

Reply 18

Redemption

They're a good way to develop and understand what it is you want out of a relationship, and they can also teach you a lot about what you want to avoid in relationships. Yeah, I've never seen them happen for any length of time (1month+) and not end with one hurt or a one-sided relationship.

However, a real relationship doesn't half knock the socks off them.