So this guy only ever talks to me when he needs help on an assignment. I say yes every time and help him because I feel bad if I say no. I'm a natural people-pleaser, but I never knew I was that bad of a people-pleaser until I met this guy. (at least I now know i have something to work on in terms of self-development lmao) He has asked me to hang out several times, but never follows through. It's sort of like he asks me, "wanna go to the movies?" or something, I say "sure", then nothing happens. Or "I'll call you tomorrow", then nothing. I also notice that when he needs help, I'm quick to respond, but when I ask for something, he delays it by saying how busy he is.
So naturally one would assume he's taking advantage of me. A smart person would cut him out of their life, right? But the problem is I sort of like him because I've got to know him pretty well. But despite that, I still feel taken advantage of.
Thoughts??