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okay, Im ****ed

I like girl B right, got that? But I care about girl A a whole bit more...a whole bunch more (tried typing that first but forgot how to spell bunch so I put bit) Girl A is a very very good friend, but recently have been confused as something more, I made a dicision to not go out with her though because I had doubts about the relationship and pretty much thought it would just ruin us. So yea, I thought I did the right thing. And Girl B and I have had a brilliant of a time. With Girl A being still a friend and never worring about a thing, my decision seemed to have worked! :s-smilie: plus there are certain people like my sister who said do not persue. anyways everythings been just fine...but I feel a little like I am cheating and betraying girl B when I stilll want to be with her and having such a great time. :tsr2: do I seem confusing:confused: Much of this has been solved before hand it seems to be coming back though. what the **** for!!!!:s-smilie:

Reply 1

yea maybe you are a bit over your head with this one.

Reply 2

I was in a situation like this. But I was girl A. Needless to say, Boy ended up with Girl A. :biggrin:

Listen to your heart, and go for it.

Reply 3

I have no idea what you're saying and as far as I can see OP; you're royally ****ed!!

Reply 4

Anonymous
I like girl B right, got that? But I care about girl A a whole bit more...a whole bunch more (tried typing that first but forgot how to spell bunch so I put bit) Girl A is a very very good friend, but recently have been confused as something more, I made a dicision to not go out with her though because I had doubts about the relationship and pretty much thought it would just ruin us. So yea, I thought I did the right thing. And Girl B and I have had a brilliant of a time. With Girl A being still a friend and never worring about a thing, my decision seemed to have worked! :s-smilie: plus there are certain people like my sister who said do not persue. anyways everythings been just fine...but I feel a little like I am cheating and betraying girl B when I stilll want to be with her and having such a great time. :tsr2: do I seem confusing:confused: Much of this has been solved before hand it seems to be coming back though. what the **** for!!!!:s-smilie:


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Reply 5

Anonymous
I like girl B right, got that? But I care about girl A a whole bit more...a whole bunch more (tried typing that first but forgot how to spell bunch so I put bit) Girl A is a very very good friend, but recently have been confused as something more, I made a dicision to not go out with her though because I had doubts about the relationship and pretty much thought it would just ruin us. So yea, I thought I did the right thing. And Girl B and I have had a brilliant of a time. With Girl A being still a friend and never worring about a thing, my decision seemed to have worked! :s-smilie: plus there are certain people like my sister who said do not persue. anyways everythings been just fine...but I feel a little like I am cheating and betraying girl B when I stilll want to be with her and having such a great time. :tsr2: do I seem confusing:confused: Much of this has been solved before hand it seems to be coming back though. what the **** for!!!!:s-smilie:

i've been girl A before and we didn't go out because we thought it would ruin us... hes with a new girl now but i still regret us not going out and i think he does a little bit too.
i think you shouldn't not be with girl A just because you think it would ruin your relationship - if you like her more then be with with her! you'll regret it if you don't.

Right can i just ask from a girls point of view do both girls actually like you? :smile: .....

If that is the case, then i suggest you as people have said 'go with your hear' but, not if your doubting anything, don’t get involved with either if your doubting yourself, because its obvious you care about them both :smile:

Reply 7

You need to be very careful as you could hurt two girls. you could see where things go with girl b & not see as much of girl a or you could take a risk and end things with girl b for girl a. if they're in the same group of friends it will be extreamly difficult for both of them.

only you know what's best but don't mess anyone around!

Reply 8

debwm
You need to be very careful as you could hurt two girls. you could see where things go with girl b & not see as much of girl a or you could take a risk and end things with girl b for girl a. if they're in the same group of friends it will be extreamly difficult for both of them.

only you know what's best but don't mess anyone around!


Aye, I understand, and its a damn good thing that they dont know eachother, but friends of girl B know exactly who Girl A is and were friends in highschool....which still sucks. I have not told anyone anything yet though. I have gotten tired of feeling so close to girl A though, and even thoughts of this make me feel unloyal to girl B, whom I am with now. Girl A has been a friend so long I worry for her life and would do anything for her. but still, what it is...is what it is. And I think now that I should try what many have said. Im not looking towards hurting anyone here, but I understand how I can regret this afterwards...and no matter what way I take I think I might regret it. I can hurt people no matter what. I think I'll try staying away from Girl A more and spend more time with girl B, talking too though, not just with friends or anything...but some alone time. be very nice.......

Thanks for your input...

Reply 9

Anonymous
Aye, I understand, and its a damn good thing that they dont know eachother, but friends of girl B know exactly who Girl A is and were friends in highschool....which still sucks. I have not told anyone anything yet though. I have gotten tired of feeling so close to girl A though, and even thoughts of this make me feel unloyal to girl B, whom I am with now. Girl A has been a friend so long I worry for her life and would do anything for her. but still, what it is...is what it is. And I think now that I should try what many have said. Im not looking towards hurting anyone here, but I understand how I can regret this afterwards...and no matter what way I take I think I might regret it. I can hurt people no matter what. I think I'll try staying away from Girl A more and spend more time with girl B, talking too though, not just with friends or anything...but some alone time. be very nice.......

Thanks for your input...

why are you so tired of being close to girl A, that doesnt make sense. if you care about her, if your her friend...then wouldn't you want to stay close in a way, but still keeping your distance from her....maybe act as if you two are not near or so close. what happens then?
And what bout girl B, what keeps you so far away?