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what do you do with your bf/ gf?

and i don't mean in a sexual way... :p:

I was just posting this thread out of interest, to see what you do when you meet up with your bf or gf in a 1 on 1 situation, as in do you go to each others' houses? cinema? theatre? shopping? walks?

just cos that I seem to always end up at my boyfriend's house and was just wondering what people do that's fun and different!

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Reply 1

*Tears and Butterflies*

Well the norm would be go round his, maybe shopping (He doesn't live with his parent's so we go food shopping and stuff) cinema when there is something good on, we also just started Salsa dancing :biggrin:

I don't know, lots of things, whatever is easier, it jut depends on how we feel and if we are skint or not (we usually are lol.)

Reply 2

22KT22

I either go shopping, meet up and have lunch in the park and just talk or he comes over mine i go over his. We once went to an art museum and went pottery painting which was quite cool. Although i dfo have to see four plays for my course so i may invite my bf and make a night of it, next time we meet up. Tbh i dont see him too much out of college.. when we do we generally meet up in town and decide what we goin to do then.

Reply 3

Jimi Haze

We just usually chill at each others houses - watch a movie or whatnot together.
Regularly go out for dinner / the cinema or even shopping occasionally (although I must say I'm not one to take shopping with, I get impatient, like all men do).

Theatre havn't done yet but it's a good idea, guess it's easier for people up in London and stuff, walks - meh nooooot at this time of year anyway and I drive so I dunno lol.

Whatever really - I guess most of the time it doesn't matter so long as you're together and enjoying it :smile:

Reply 4

punktopia

Ritual sacrifice, chicken-baiting and a spot of mugging.

Reply 5

Llamaaa

When my boyfriend comes over here we do tourism because he has only been in the uk twice (both with me :biggrin:

) so we go on trips to cities and sites. We also go to theme parks, the cinema, shopping, for a meal and so forth.

When I am in Peru we go out for meals, to the cinema, to fairgrounds or shopping since I already did the whole tourist thing :smile:

Reply 6

***harri***

Yeah i used to do all that, now we live together so dont really go out that much...

Reply 7

***harri***

Yeah i used to do all that, now we live together so dont really go out that much...

Reply 8

RosiePosiePuddingAndPie

Most of the time, we go to each others' house - talk lots, watch TV, DVDs, listen to music, snuggle ( :redface:

), play on the Wii, that sorta thing. Otherwise we go to the cinema sometimes, or go for meals, and I drag him on 'romantic' walks every now and then :p:

And we like to go swimming when we have money :smile:

Ooo and we're planning on going on bike rides when it's a liiiittle bit warmer :redface:

Reply 9

moshing-fairy

We usually just watch films and lie in bed (not in a sexual way necessarily lol) maybe we are just lazy....

i really cant think of anything else we've done!. sometimes we go for walks...

we are in a LDR atm tho. when he's back i plan to be more adventurous.

me and my ex used to go to lots of places, like national trust places have picnics and then stuff like longleat (animal park if you don't know it).

oooh me and my b/f go to the pub alot, which me and my ex didnt do cause he was 3/4 years older so sometimes it felt weird hanging out with my friends.

just do whatever you wanna do, as long as you enjoy spending time together.
personally although it may be dull and at first we def were bored of just being at mine..my fave thing is just talking and being with eachother.

Reply 10

happydinosaur

Just normal stuff. Sometimes we go for lunch together at uni. Cook and eat dinner, watch dvds, talk. Sometimes I take him to see stuff at the theatre. Go the pub for a quiet drink. We both like photography so we do go out and do that when we get chance. We (well my boyfriend) drive to somewhere random and take photographs.

Reply 11

blissy

kissing, watching DVDs, swimming, shopping, walking/hiking, cycling, reading, cooking, going to national trust properties for sedate little walks, picnics, exploring new towns/cities, eating out at lunch time, go to the cinema, have friends round for dinner, go to friends' houses, go dancing.

Anything really :smile:

Reply 12

weet_ABI_x

It almost always ends up in going to his house, and mainly we just talk for hours about nothing. Sounds boring, but with my ex all we ever did were structured activities like cinema, shopping, walks etc and we barely ever went to each others houses, and it was so much less intimate and forced. I think it's much better just doing nothing, but with each other :smile:

Reply 13

person 34

Sit in his double bed and watch dvds and cuddle up day or night which usually leads to other things. Go for random drives into town/country and turn our music up loud. Go for random walks! Go to the cinema quite a lot to if we can afford it, and next Friday I'm taking him out for a proper posh meal (which will be the first time, LOL) and then I'm just gonna go back to his and chillax! We are simple creatures, we genetally don't have to be doing something exciting for us to bond but we do ranodm things too. We talk endlessly too, but sometimes neither of us have to say anything....HAHA

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

We go to the gym and do karate, submission grappling and Thai boxing together. We also spend time at each other's houses - watching DVDs, cooking, eating with my family. We food shop and sometime go to the cinema.

Reply 15

madima

i get a blowjob.

Reply 16

randdom

Well as my boyfriend lives quite a distance away we can't really just meet up for a drink so normally one comes to visit the other. We just hang around at each other houses really relax, watch tv play sing star etc. We will also often go out for walks or food in our respective towns, go to the cinema and have been to a couple of sealife centers.

It doesn't really matter what we do as long as we are together and enjoy that time.

Reply 17

Freud

Shopping and watching movies are the best excuses for spending time together I've found. Now I just need the boy...

Reply 18

twotwenty

Re: what do you do with your bf/ gf?

i get a blowjob.

lol

Reply 19

Graylilxx

Feed the ducks, go for a walk, ice skating, mini golf, swimming, bowling, cinema, Panto/theatre, shopping, go out with friends for drinks etc, go for meals (bu we dont do it all the time, usually on a special occassion, which I actually tink is nicer). Jump on the train and go to the nearest city/town for a day out, We cook and bake cakes (which he is c**p at). I love having duvet movie nights, where you cuddle up and eat sweets and popcorn (oh the joys of home pop-corn machines), sumo-suit wrestling (granted i only did this once, but it was fun).
There are loads of things people can do, it just depends on yours and his interests