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Does he like me? (Sorry for lack of originality)

This is my first time posting here - hi guys! Please go easy on me, especially considering this is a seemingly repetitive/cliché topic to be discussing... I'd just really love some of your input.

So, there's this guy that goes to my college. We've hung out a few times and enjoyed each others company, and... basically, I like him. We've sat on the couch together before, and we always seem to start off rather far away, and somehow end up pretty close. The first time we hung out we ended up at a fast-food restaurant (sorry for the typo, before LOL), and he bought me dinner. Whenever we chat on MSN he has little names for me, like "miss" and "cutie" and even "darling" at times (and he usually starts off by saying "hey you"). Occasionally he'll throw in winks and hearts. I kind of think he might like me, although he seems to have an intimidatingly large amount of female friends, which leads me to believe: perhaps he is like this with everyone? It feels really personal when he calls me by those names and spends time with me and smiles at me and such, though. Also, around Christmastime he said he wished I could visit him (he was in his hometown which is pretty far from me), so we could be "cuddle buddies." That seems like definite flirting to me. Do you think so, too?

Anyways, so recently he moved to another city, that's about half an hour from the college. He has to commute (via train) to school and back everyday. He continuously talks about his want for me to come see him, which I do plan on doing at some point. He says we can take the train to his apartment together, and he'll "make sure" I'm alright, since I'm relatively unfamiliar with public transit (and uneasy because of my lack of experience).

So... do you think he likes me as more than a friend?

Thanks so much for reading this. :smile:

Reply 1

it sounds like he likes you. does he treat his other female friends like this too?

just wait and see what happens i guess - or if you can't wait ask him how he sees you (friend/more?)

:smile:

Reply 2

ooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh
sounds like he really likes u
Tell him how you feel!

Reply 3

"we ended up at a fast-food relationship" That made me laugh.

I agree with the others, sounds like he likes you. I'd go and visit him next time he invites you, good luck :smile:

Reply 4

He's male and takes an interest in you, if he isn't gay then he likes you.

Reply 5

i think it's pretty obvious

Reply 6

Yep, it does sounds like he likes you. Especially the whole "cuddle buddies" kind of thing, that can't really be intrepreted in any other way.

Go for it :smile:

Reply 7

Go to his flat and make woopie!!! Then he'll definitely like you. Although it sounds pretty certain anyway

Reply 8

You're uneasy on public transport? Why?


And yeh, he likes you. Woohoo.

Reply 9

Flower404
it sounds like he likes you. does he treat his other female friends like this too?


I actually have no idea how he treats his other female friends... and I can't really ask them directly because I'm not friends with any of them. So I may never know. :frown:

Reply 10

Definitely

Reply 11

he either likes you or he is gay lol. probably the first one tho

Reply 12

Woop Woop!
Go to his flat and make woopie!!! Then he'll definitely like you. Although it sounds pretty certain anyway


Ah, it seems we've found the 'Most constructive post of the year' awardee. Was that supposed to be funny?

Reply 13

SuperVictoria64
This is my first time posting here - hi guys! Please go easy on me, especially considering this is a seemingly repetitive/cliché topic to be discussing... I'd just really love some of your input.

So, there's this guy that goes to my college. We've hung out a few times and enjoyed each others company, and... basically, I like him quite a bit. We've sat on the couch together before, and we always seem to start off rather far away, and somehow end up pretty close. The first time we hung out we ended up at a fast-food restaurant (sorry for the typo, before LOL), and he bought me dinner. Whenever we chat on MSN he has little names for me, like "miss" and "cutie" and even "darling" at times (and he usually starts off by saying "hey you"). Occasionally he'll throw in winks and hearts. I kind of think he might like me, although he seems to have an intimidatingly large amount of female friends, which leads me to believe: perhaps he is like this with everyone? It feels really personal when he calls me by those names and spends time with me and smiles at me and such, though. Also, around Christmastime he said he wished I could visit him (he was in his hometown which is pretty far from me), so we could be "cuddle buddies." That seems like definite flirting to me. Do you think so, too?

Anyways, so recently he moved to another city, that's about half an hour from the college. He has to commute (via train) to school and back everyday. He continuously talks about his want for me to come see him, which I do plan on doing at some point. He says we can take the train to his apartment together, and he'll "make sure" I'm alright, since I'm relatively unfamiliar with public transit (and uneasy because of my lack of experience).

So... do you think he likes me as more than a friend?

Thanks so much for reading this. :smile:

He sounds like a bit of a player. In general I find guys who are less obvious are more genuine in liking you, through not wishing to get hurt/not wanting to 'spoil things'. There's quite a large chance that this guy treats the many girls he knows like this, not just the O.P. Sorry to be a cynic. :frown:

Reply 14

Schokis
He sounds like a bit of a player. In general I find guys who are less obvious are more genuine in liking you, through not wishing to get hurt/not wanting to 'spoil things'. There's quite a large chance that this guy treats the many girls he knows like this, not just the O.P. Sorry to be a cynic. :frown:


That's okay, don't worry! I value your opinion, and to be honest, I wouldn't be surprised if he did turn out to act like this with his other female friends.

Reply 15

Well it sounds like he does like you, i dont see how he couldnt tbh.

But be careful :biggrin:

Reply 16

Yes he does.

Reply 17

So go see him and see what happens...

Reply 18

I'd say it's quite possible that he likes you. However, remember that there's of course a chance he just considers you a good friend and does not have any other feelings for you.

He might like you, but it's also possible that you're misinterpreting some of his gestures because you like him.

Reply 19

When are you going to visit him? Tell us how it goes when you do go.
and whilst most people say he definately likes you there's always that chance that maybe he's like that with his other female friends too so please dont get your hopes up too high - although you're probably in there :wink: