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Boy blues

Anon or delete please!!
life in general is good, but as per usual there's this guy that is totally confusing me.

Just before the xmas holidays we were getting on soo well and flirting loads and we had some cuddles etc he told me he'd miss me over the holidays etc so we facebooked and texted a bit.

So we come back from the holidays and it was great to see everyone again, we went out into town and ended up getting smashed and sleeping together... The next day things were fine but we decided not to tell anyone as it might make things awkward in the group. So we start spending alot of time together under the pretence that we just don't want things to be awkward.. More serious flirting carries on, touching each other (not inapproriately!) when no ones looking smiling etc, So then a couple of days later we're in my room and he starts to kiss my neck, one thing leads to another and we end up sleeping together again, totally sober.

Now this is where it gets tricky, he has a girlfriend. I feel awful for what i have done to her. The day after the second time all of our friends found out, and he decided to tell his gf, which he did. And they have decided to try and make things work, the thing is that the relationship is rubbish, he has now cheated on her with 3 girls and her on him with 2 guys, they only saw each other once in the 3 weeks that he was home from uni, but he still says that he loves her, so this gets me thinking wtf shall i do?! i have feelings for him, he's a lovely guy and we get on so well. Its not like i want a relationship, just a bit of fun, what shall i do?!
x

Reply 1

matt@internet

I thought this was gonna be about blue balls.

Reply 2

username47781

Stop seeing/sleeping him, how would you feel if it was done to you?

Reply 3

randomgirl

Well if he is with his gf and doesn't want to sleep with you, there's nothing you can do.

Reply 4

jumpinglunch

He will cheat on you. :smile:

Reply 5

matt@internet

If he's done it to her why d'you think he won't do it to you?

Reply 6

xxbeckykinsxx

he seems like the type that would refer to the saying ' once a cheat, always a cheat '

even though you have feelings for him, he doesnt sound worth it. move on, its probs best for your own good :smile:

Reply 7