Why won't he open my snapchat?

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I met this guy at uni and we hit it off. We've made out and kissed and we used to go for walks and stuff.

He's still using snapchat as his snap score keeps going up but he hasn't opened my message.

Usually, people just open my snapchats and don't reply if they're not interested. I can handle that. What I don't understand is why he's deliberately not opening it?

If anyone could give me an insight into his behaviour that would be brill. I've completely refrained from contacting him further as it is likely that he's ghosting me.

I'm considering deleting him but I don't want to make it awkward as we live on the same campus and I see him often.
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he' probably relaxing with family(as you do on christmas) dw
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At least he isn't opening them and ignoring them. How long has he not opened it for? Just wait for a bit. Don't delete him over this.
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(Original post by tastupee11)
At least he isn't opening them and ignoring them. How long has he not opened it for? Just wait for a bit. Don't delete him over this.
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(Original post by tastupee11)
At least he isn't opening them and ignoring them. How long has he not opened it for? Just wait for a bit. Don't delete him over this.
that happens 90% of the time for me , makes me wanna kms
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Kiss him goodbye.
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Deleting his contact would be a massive overreaction. Maybe he dismissed the notification by mistake and never got round to opening your snap?

Why do people read so much into social media....?
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Send him another generic snap just now and see if he opens that one. If he doesn't then he's probably not interested I'm afraid

I would send him another though, one that looks like it's one you sent to a bunch of people
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He's nobbing another bird

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probably letting you down gently, opening and ignoring a snap would prob make it awkward.

People saying he is probably busy, are incredibly naive about how rejection works
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talk to him when you see him in person.
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Since 30th November?

Man just ghosted you hard :laugh:

I'm sorry to say but he probably lost interest in you.
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i do that when i dont want to talk to someone
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Deleting his contact would be a massive overreaction. Maybe he dismissed the notification by mistake and never got round to opening your snap?

Why do people read so much into social media....?
Yet the guy still goes on SnapChat and snaps other people besides her (since his snap score is increasing) and you still think he "missed the notification by mistake"....

Do people have brains like...
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(Original post by faloodeh)
i do that when i dont want to talk to someone
then might aswell delete them
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it could be a misunderstanding sometimes my snapchat bugs out and wont load snaps from people...

just see how he acts in person
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then might aswell delete them
I hate snap tbh it's too superficial!

Deleted mine (and Fb too, best thing I've done this year. Zero stress).
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Yet the guy still goes on SnapChat and snaps other people besides her (since his snap score is increasing) and you still think he "missed the notification by mistake"....

Do people have brains like...
Yes, whenever you receive new snaps older snaps get pushed down the list. There was one time where I had a snap sent to me over a month ago and I didn't realise it until recently because I had to scroll down to be able to see it.

So yeah, I do think that is a possibility.
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I hate snap tbh it's too superficial!

Deleted mine (and Fb too, best thing I've done this year. Zero stress).
You probably had really boring people on sc. Snapchat is lit when you have interesting peoe!

I also deleted Facebook too time ago! So true
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Yes, whenever you receive new snaps older snaps get pushed down the list. There was one time where I had a snap sent to me over a month ago and I didn't realise it until recently because I had to scroll down to be able to see it.

So yeah, I do think that is a possibility.
New snaps go to the top, like you say.

She mentioned he has ignored her snaps since 30th of November though...it's now nearly 25th December. That guy clearly doesn't care, what guy does that to a girl he likes? He would have obviously sent her snaps in that time but he hasn't even bothered!
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