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ironic situation.
So this time 12 months ago i fancied this guy like mad lets call him Mike. I was 16 - he was 20.
It was a typical teenage crush and he had a gf but that was fine as well i think if it would have came down to it i would have said no cause well you know im not like that it was just a crazy stalkerish crush.
It must have been pretty obvious that i fancied him cause well i showed all the signs ie laughing real loud at his ****ty jokes... anyway he use to play on it and treat me real bad you know make really nastie comments and just act like an utter prick towards me (he started being horrible to me when i started going out with this lad).
we lost contact for a while but had a meet up in the summer holidays and done some shopping together - we got on really well!
since then he has started to invite me to like a million parties and everything- all of which i have made up some crap excuse and turned him down.
anyhow turns out this girlfreind of his has went and finished with him just before crimbo as she is going to america and doesnt want the bothers of trying to stay in touch.
we now txt each other like 24/7 im just real confused. he use to be a real tit and now he is really nice and i think i might still fancy him but like im so nervous about meeting him incase i make a fool outa myself- just thinking about meeting up with him makes me feel insecure (if that makes sense?!). does he like me? do i like him? should i meet up with him?
arghhhhhh boys -
It was a typical teenage crush and he had a gf but that was fine as well i think if it would have came down to it i would have said no cause well you know im not like that it was just a crazy stalkerish crush.
It must have been pretty obvious that i fancied him cause well i showed all the signs ie laughing real loud at his ****ty jokes... anyway he use to play on it and treat me real bad you know make really nastie comments and just act like an utter prick towards me (he started being horrible to me when i started going out with this lad).
we lost contact for a while but had a meet up in the summer holidays and done some shopping together - we got on really well!
since then he has started to invite me to like a million parties and everything- all of which i have made up some crap excuse and turned him down.
anyhow turns out this girlfreind of his has went and finished with him just before crimbo as she is going to america and doesnt want the bothers of trying to stay in touch.
we now txt each other like 24/7 im just real confused. he use to be a real tit and now he is really nice and i think i might still fancy him but like im so nervous about meeting him incase i make a fool outa myself- just thinking about meeting up with him makes me feel insecure (if that makes sense?!). does he like me? do i like him? should i meet up with him?
arghhhhhh boys -
Reply 1
sounds to me like rebound...
Reply 3
he is first to admit how bad they are!and the reason i turn him down is because im scared of making a druken fool outta myself/being in a room full of people i dont know.. i'd go real shy man.
Reply 5
lol.
Reply 6
Bit young for him entcha?
Reply 7
Sounds a bit grim to me...
ooo I'm from Newcastle too
Anyways, back to the subject... I think there may be a small chance you're a rebound, sorry ... If he's been horrible before he can be again.
ooo I'm from Newcastle too
Anyways, back to the subject... I think there may be a small chance you're a rebound, sorry
... If he's been horrible before he can be again.Reply 8
buttttt
he was only horrible when i had a boyfreind... is that just wishful thinking????
he was only horrible when i had a boyfreind... is that just wishful thinking????
Reply 9
CJPT89
sounds to me like the OP is a bit of a dick as well. You turn down invites to parties? And openly called his jokes ****ty? Are you sure you actually like him?
I think you should go for it OP.
Reply 10
Rebound. Steer clear. Icky situation.
Reply 12
hmm weird situation!
you only live once... go for it!
you only live once... go for it!
Reply 14
Obvious rebound because you were really keen before and you're young and aren't going to america any time soon
Reply 15
It sounds to me that he's just using you. How can you like him if he used to treat you badly? If you get on well with the guy, be friends with him, but don't let him take advantage of you now just because his gf has left him. The fact that he makes you feel insecure when your around him shows how you probably don't trust him, don't know where you stand, and think he might be playing games with you.
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