desperate for help with love!

i liked this boy for a while and he liked me.
we always flirted and were really good mates, but he had a long term gf. one day, he decided he wanted me and not her, and finally dumped her.
we got together and were at it for about a week and a bit. until his ex girlfriend messaged me to tell me they were back together! and he didn't want to speak to me again.
i hated him,but still liked him.
then a few weeks later they broke up again because she thought he still liked me even though we weren't talking anymore.
now its been 2 months and i still really like him, and he keeps looking at me longlingly and like he wants me.
i want him, but i don't want him to play me around.
what should i do?!
talk to him but risk him fooling me around again, or carry on ignoring him but lose the guy i love.
please help

Reply 1

dh00001

personally i would ignore him and try to move on.
but you need to think if he will do it all again, its not worth getting hurt again.

Reply 2

username158373

I'm weak minded in this area and would get him to be mine even for a little while, then if it goes tits up you can fully get over it.

Otherwise you'll never know what you missed out on. And that for me is a crime.

Reply 3

daniel_williams

som e people deserve a second chance, from what I can make out from his ex telling you they were back together he wasn't man enough to tell you himself.

although if he was only back with her for a short time then yeah maybe he did actually like you, you could give him a second chance, but if he were to screw up on this one you'd never trust him again and thats the end of it.

ok you might seem foolish at the time, but you can at least warn others of him. some guys are immatue and sleep round / cheat / have **** buddies what ever , but if they are on the rebound they'll do anything for attention.

be careful of this guy and do what you think is best, afterall you know him better than anyone else on here.

Reply 4

I_L_S

If your going to go back with him be very very careful!!! it's ur decision at the end of the day but think of yourself & how it made you feel when he did that to you before.

Reply 5

randomgirl

Well if you are going to get back with him make sure you don't rush into anything.
He's messed you around before, he may do it again. But if you really trust him then I say go for it. Maybe he's changed, maybe he'll be different with you. Then again, maybe not. Just make sure that you are careful and don't wear your heart on your sleeve too much at first.

good luck :smile:

Reply 6

suicidal_dream

i think you need to take your time and really consider it all properly.

IF you decide to get back with him, lay down the law. Tell him what he did wasn't acceptable and that this is his last chance, otherwise he'll see you as a doormat and chances are, he'll do it again!