Fell in love with a casino dealer? Watch

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I am gonna go straight to the point. I might be a dramatic and passionate guy in what comes to love. when i find a girls physionomy to be gracious, as well as her personality, I get infatuated. And now I m getting it with older chicks I m 18 and they are like 24, but they usually say I look like i am 20/21 and I have a speech of an adult. I was at the Casino in Lisboa (where I live, in Portugal) and me and my friend talked a lot to a gracious dealer at caribbean poker. She told us she had taken graphic design but she was there blah blah blah not gonna tell the whole conv but assuming she kinda liked one of us in a more radiant way than just bein nice to players, which I believe so, would there be a slight chance I talk to her like privately and get to know her outside that "ambience". We had glanced at each other several times... Idk is there a restriction that casino workers dealers coupiers cannot date or involve externally w a guy from there? Do you find this feasible, or has anyone experienced a similar experience with a rather positive ending?
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My sister is a casino dealer just saying.
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My sister is a casino dealer just saying.
C'mon serious answers. Considering your sisters work, has she ever told you any restriction or was she ever like interested or curious to meet a guy she talked to in a casino?
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C'mon serious answers. Considering your sisters work, has she ever told you any restriction or was she ever like interested or curious to meet a guy she talked to in a casino?
Well I never talk to her about her job because I kind of don't care. Hence, what I am about to say is all assumptions.

Personally, I can only think of one reason why there would be restrictions which is because the casino would be scared you might cheat. However, I find it highly unlikely that they would impose rules on people's lives because it is unfeasible to enforce and unjust. If you went to dinner with her, the casino aren't going to track her every move and then fire her lol. That would be insane. Ask for her number and if she is interested, she will tell you and you can write it down. It would not be a good idea for you give her anything or for her to give you anything while she is at work; they might think you were cheating. If she says "sorry, I am not allowed to give my number at work" and that is it, then most likely she isn't interested. The reason is if she was interested, then she can always give it to you after work etc etc.

Just be cautious that the dealer's job is to be welcoming and friendly and, hence, some might misconstrue their intentions.

Overall, there is no restrictions on her personal life and the casino won't even know that she was going out with you. Although, I do see why personally she would not want to date a customer.
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Well I never talk to her about her job because I kind of don't care. Hence, what I am about to say is all assumptions.

Personally, I can only think of one reason why there would be restrictions which is because the casino would be scared you might cheat. However, I find it highly unlikely that they would pose rules on people's lives because it is unfeasible to enforce and unjust. If you went to dinner with her, the casino aren't going to track her every move and then fire her lol. That would be insane. Ask for her number and if she is interested, she will tell you and you can write it down. It would not be a good idea for you give her anything or for her to give you anything while she is at work; they might think you were cheating. If she says "sorry, I am not allowed to give my number at work" and that is it, then most likely she isn't interested. The reason is if she was interested, then she can always give it to you after work etc etc.

Just be cautious that the dealer's job is to be welcoming and friendly and, hence, some might misconstrue their intentions.

Overall, there is no restrictions on her personal life and the casino won't even know that she was going out with you. Although, I do see why personally she would not want to date a customer.
**** I m kinda of one those dudes that falls in love w a stripper or excort... at least now this is how i feel, not cos she s a prostitute but bc she has that idylic barrier of age work beauty etc that i might not be able to break. She s like 24 for **** sake why would she be interested in an 18 old casino player?
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**** I m kinda of one those dudes that falls in love w a stripper or excort... at least now this is how i feel, not cos she s a prostitute but bc she has that idylic barrier of age work beauty etc that i might not be able to break. She s like 24 for **** sake why would she be interested in an 18 old casino player?
My reasons for why she might not be interested is because:

1. Assuming that she is as beautiful as you say, there are probably 100,000 guys trying to ask her out every night so why are you different than any of them.

2. She might have a bad impression of gamblers. My sister has told me that she has a low opinion of the gamblers at her work because a lot of times they come in drunk and do stupid things. This might not be you but you might just think you are one of those guys instinctively.

3. You're 18.

4. Are you really good looking? If she is like a 10/10, then you probably have to be at least 8.5/10 (we both know people are superficial). A 10/10 would most likely not go for a 5/10 especially a random person that she doesn't know and etc.
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My reasons for why she might not be interested is because:

1. Assuming that she is as beautiful as you say, there are probably 100,000 guys trying to ask her out every night so why are you different than any of them.

2. She might have a bad impression of gamblers. My sister has told me that she has a low opinion of the gamblers at her work because a lot of times they come in drunk and do stupid things. This might not be you but you might just think you are one of those guys instinctively.

3. You're 18.

4. Are you really good looking? If she is like a 10/10, then you probably have to be at least 8.5/10 (we both know people are superficial). A 10/10 would most likely not go for a 5/10 especially a random person that she doesn't know and etc.
1. she s not blonde with blue eyes or either like a model. But me, and my friend, were impressed. She s a short brunette with a cute face. Id say she s a 7,5/8 but I liked her apparent personality so it lifts up the scale. Idk if she does have a boyfriend, but she seemed a bit lost in life you know, one of those monotonous 20's phase where you unnapreciate yourself for some psychological eccentric reason.

2. I am an avid player at the roulette. I make serious cash but not addicted but me and my friends, and lots of dudes of my social group/acquaintances go to the casino a lot! Its nice plus i live across the street... she was working at the poker table this time, which honestly i m no expert in it. And she noticed it and even laughed and tried to explain to me and stuff. I was just there at first cos my friend likes to play poker and cos of the dealer he was really into her too (but he has a gf who he argues is a look-alike of her). Plus she asked me what i was taking in college and she emphasized quite a lot of times the idea I was not some random child or richy ass ****, she even said I seemed to be an intelligent fellow who s there to make cash and have a nice time. I agree

3. No counter arguments, girls dig older dudes I know I know.

4. I havent got a photo of me here but you can look it up insta freecciardi (dont know if you re a dude or a girl you seem like a dude tbh but **** it you can more less say if i m an ugly fellow or not. Other people tell me i m handsome and have a nice boddy and stuff, i believe i m average, like brunette small nose, short hair (now shaved actually eheh) like a normal face, with a good smile i guess.
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1. she s not blonde with blue eyes or either like a model. But me, and my friend, were impressed. She s a short brunette with a cute face. Id say she s a 7,5/8 but I liked her apparent personality so it lifts up the scale. Idk if she does have a boyfriend, but she seemed a bit lost in life you know, one of those monotonous 20's phase where you unnapreciate yourself for some psychological eccentric reason.

2. I am an avid player at the roulette. I make serious cash but not addicted but me and my friends, and lots of dudes of my social group/acquaintances go to the casino a lot! Its nice plus i live across the street... she was working at the poker table this time, which honestly i m no expert in it. And she noticed it and even laughed and tried to explain to me and stuff. I was just there at first cos my friend likes to play poker and cos of the dealer he was really into her too (but he has a gf who he argues is a look-alike of her). Plus she asked me what i was taking in college and she emphasized quite a lot of times the idea I was not some random child or richy ass ****, she even said I seemed to be an intelligent fellow who s there to make cash and have a nice time. I agree

3. No counter arguments, girls dig older dudes I know I know.

4. I havent got a photo of me here but you can look it up insta freecciardi (dont know if you re a dude or a girl you seem like a dude tbh but **** it you can more less say if i m an ugly fellow or not. Other people tell me i m handsome and have a nice boddy and stuff, i believe i m average, like brunette small nose, short hair (now shaved actually eheh) like a normal face, with a good smile i guess.
No homo, but you are a good looking dude. Yes, you guessed correctly I am a guy. I am not gay but I can tell when another guy is ugly or not. You do, however, look young as fk (which is a good thing in general but probably not when you try to pick up 24s).

Anyways, I would suggest you just ask her out or etc because you really have nothing to lose. You can only gain. If she says no, then you move on. If she says yes, then you get a girl.

Ultimately, I wouldn't stress too much. Just treat it like any other person you've talked to. You will probably fall for another girl in 2 weeks anyways.
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No homo, but you are a good looking dude. Yes, you guessed correctly I am a guy. I am not gay but I can tell when another guy is ugly or not. You do, however, look young as fk (which is a good thing in general but probably not when you try to pick up 24s).

Anyways, I would suggest you just ask her out or etc because you really have nothing to lose. You can only gain. If she says no, then you move on. If she says yes, then you get a girl.

Ultimately, I wouldn't stress too much. Just treat it like any other person you've talked to. You will probably fall for another girl in 2 weeks anyways.
You seem like a nice fellow, how old are you? College? Just as curiosity, and the fact you re a guy helps, what makes me a good looking fellow apparently? Like you look at me and what is nice about my face or bod or whatever, no homo bro just like a first superficial glance. I have low self esteem and when it comes to chicks I guess I m not a meister, idk.
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You seem like a nice fellow, how old are you? College? Just as curiosity, and the fact you re a guy helps, what makes me a good looking fellow apparently? Like you look at me and what is nice about my face or bod or whatever, no homo bro just like a first superficial glance. I have low self esteem and when it comes to chicks I guess I m not a meister, idk.
19 and currently waiting for my UCAS offers. Idk its just instinctive so can't really explain.
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19 and currently waiting for my UCAS offers. Idk its just instinctive so can't really explain.
Honestly do I have any chances with Filipa (I call her by her name, not her casino status) eheh
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Honestly? you look like a nonce.
Lmaooooooooooooooooo ruthless.
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only way i would move to a casino dealer is if she always dealt me bullets
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I d guess you re an ugly ****, but yeah.. you must be an ugly ****.
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Honestly? you look like a nonce.
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