Am I being irrational thinking he might be cheating? Watch
So I got home and logged on facebook (as you do) and had a quick look at his ex's profile (shh. I can't help it) and her last two status updates were '...is wishing some guys had more confidence' and '...is scared in a good way'. The second status update was the same time as my boyfriend got home because he'd been working late (they work together, had been dating a year and a half). Then I looked at the 'how they know each other thing' which had changed from 'they used to date but not now' to 'they used to date and are still dating'. I know that could be a facebook glitch but...I don't know.
Do you guys think I'm being paranoid here? I know, before anyone tells me, looking at his ex's facebook is not healthy but I was curious. And I also know I need to talk to him, but he always seems to be busy when I try
Does sound rather suspicious but then again I can only guess from what you've told me.
No I don't think you are being paranoid. Confront him about it.
I think you're right - it wouldn't be a glitch - get yourself over to his and find out the truth
is there any other reason for you to think hes cheating on you?
keep trying to see him him, convince him youre on top of your work and see what he does.
If that the was basis then i'd be married to and dating half my friends on facebook.
But the rest of his behaviour is very suspisious.
Although I do admit it seems suspicious :/
Such an arse when i do that, but it makes sense.
If you don't feel comfortable doing that then do what hellosailor suggested.