18 never had a bf?

I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never had a boyfriend, not even had my first kiss yet. I've had crushes before and been on a couple of dates with 1 guy but it was really awkward and I didn't like him anymore afterwards. I feel like I always develop crushes on guys who I've never spoken to before that I think are cute or attractive, but then when I finally talk with them they're completely different to the idea I had of them. I don't know what kind of guy I would like so I don't know what to look for. I feel so inexperienced compared to everyone around me, and I would really love to have a companion, I'm jealous of people in relationships who seem to be really in love.

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

OP

** Also just to add I'm in my first year of uni and haven't seen/met anyone I think i would like which is kind of worrying me

Reply 2

Mikasadoge

16

Original post by Anonymous

I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never had a boyfriend, not even had my first kiss yet. I've had crushes before and been on a couple of dates with 1 guy but it was really awkward and I didn't like him anymore afterwards. I feel like I always develop crushes on guys who I've never spoken to before that I think are cute or attractive, but then when I finally talk with them they're completely different to the idea I had of them. I don't know what kind of guy I would like so I don't know what to look for. I feel so inexperienced compared to everyone around me, and I would really love to have a companion, I'm jealous of people in relationships who seem to be really in love.

I'm a 19 year old boy, and I too have never had a boyfriend.

Reply 3

qasim-96

15

Original post by Anonymous

I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never had a boyfriend, not even had my first kiss yet. I've had crushes before and been on a couple of dates with 1 guy but it was really awkward and I didn't like him anymore afterwards. I feel like I always develop crushes on guys who I've never spoken to before that I think are cute or attractive, but then when I finally talk with them they're completely different to the idea I had of them. I don't know what kind of guy I would like so I don't know what to look for. I feel so inexperienced compared to everyone around me, and I would really love to have a companion, I'm jealous of people in relationships who seem to be really in love.

You’re only 18. I’m 21 and I’ve never been in a relationship. You’re still really young. Don’t force yourself to get a relationship otherwise you’ll regret it. Wait and the right relationship will come to you. Stop worrying about relationships and worry about making a living first and foremost.

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ParkHyungSuk

15

Original post by Anonymous

** Also just to add I'm in my first year of uni and haven't seen/met anyone I think i would like which is kind of worrying me

Don't stress too much

Reply 5

icequeenTM

15

Oh my god, you’re still young. Go travel the world with your friends or do mini adventures. Spend time with your family!!! You still have a long way to go.
It’s truly terrifying how many teens currently feel this way. What you have described is not a bad thing at all.

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username1333513

21

I've never had a boyfriend as well, but I met a guy I dated for a bit at a society event, we didn't last but then I met another guy that I've been dating currently at another society event and I think things are going a bit better with guy than with the previous one, try going to society socials you might meet a guy there that could end up being ur boyfriend

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faloodeh

18

Original post by Kevin Hodge

You’re only 18. I’m 21 and I’ve never been in a relationship. You’re still really young. Don’t force yourself to get a relationship otherwise you’ll regret it. Wait and the right relationship will come to you. Stop worrying about relationships and worry about making a living first and foremost.

you're 21?! wait who are you? 😲

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cajj112

12

Original post by Anonymous

I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never had a boyfriend, not even had my first kiss yet. I've had crushes before and been on a couple of dates with 1 guy but it was really awkward and I didn't like him anymore afterwards. I feel like I always develop crushes on guys who I've never spoken to before that I think are cute or attractive, but then when I finally talk with them they're completely different to the idea I had of them. I don't know what kind of guy I would like so I don't know what to look for. I feel so inexperienced compared to everyone around me, and I would really love to have a companion, I'm jealous of people in relationships who seem to be really in love.

I'm almost exactly the same but I'm a guy. I complately get where you're coming from, I do also really want a girlfriend but am not sure how to go about it or what I'm really looking for

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eden3

19

Original post by Kevin Hodge

You’re only 18. I’m 21 and I’ve never been in a relationship. You’re still really young. Don’t force yourself to get a relationship otherwise you’ll regret it. Wait and the right relationship will come to you. Stop worrying about relationships and worry about making a living first and foremost.

PASTOR GAINZ just walked up in this ***** and gave A CLEAN SERMOOON.... AYMEN PRAISE GAWD.

Original post by faloodeh

you're 21?! wait who are you? 😲

LAWD KEVIN

Reply 10

faloodeh

18

Original post by eden3

PASTOR GAINZ just walked up in this ***** and gave A CLEAN SERMOOON.... AYMEN PRAISE GAWD.

LAWD KEVIN

i thought he was like 16 ive been bamboozled

Reply 11

tribute01

5

Original post by Anonymous

** Also just to add I'm in my first year of uni and haven't seen/met anyone I think i would like which is kind of worrying me

dont worry about it be a single pringle and proud of it :P just enjoy freedom while you still can because soon you will find the one and it will be glorious i may be 13 but i have been endowed with some useful knowledge