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I only talk to one girl in university and she is by no means a close friend or a true friend.

I feel so alone. I see all these groups of girls on social media who have so many friends and I feel so jealous.

I've always have extremely social anxiety and depression. I never go out, I only go to uni and I barely speak to anyone.

I try to tell myself that I'm okay because I have my mum, brother and sister but sometimes I feel like it's not the same. I feel so alone. Anyone else like this?
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yep, me. I'm in 6th form, and am only just starting to make friends. our friendship group is tiny, and is just the three most socially awkward girls in the year... cheer up buddy, it'll all work out
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You need to make an actual effort in stead of self pity and waiting. Go to clubs and societies and you’ll make friends easily
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you've made mistakes, maybe you didn't try hard enough to make friends. and now you're hopelessly alone thinking you have no prospects and are ****ed for life. you've just got to accept what you are at the moment. you are nothing now. be okay with it. there are plenty of other people like this. they can advance themselves by realising that they really aren't what they want to be, they can become more. it is possible
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(Original post by Sweetpeasw)
yep, me. I'm in 6th form, and am only just starting to make friends. our friendship group is tiny, and is just the three most socially awkward girls in the year... cheer up buddy, it'll all work out
Sounds hot
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Sounds hot
you wot
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you wot
Socially awkward girls are FIIIIIINNEEEEEE
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Socially awkward girls are FIIIIIINNEEEEEE
you wouldn't say that if you met us...

one's the class geek,
the other is the school eco warrior
and finally you get the crazy animal obsessed girl...

we're the clumsiest in the school and get weird looks from all the teachers
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I only talk to one girl in university and she is by no means a close friend or a true friend.

I feel so alone. I see all these groups of girls on social media who have so many friends and I feel so jealous.

I've always have extremely social anxiety and depression. I never go out, I only go to uni and I barely speak to anyone.

I try to tell myself that I'm okay because I have my mum, brother and sister but sometimes I feel like it's not the same. I feel so alone. Anyone else like this?
Can you please stop looking at social media it doesn't help, people make it seem like they have the perfect life when it's not the case.

Also, you will make friends at uni join a few societies that'll help.
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(Original post by Sweetpeasw)
yep, me. I'm in 6th form, and am only just starting to make friends. our friendship group is tiny, and is just the three most socially awkward girls in the year... cheer up buddy, it'll all work out

Me too ..
In sixth form but barely have any friends but for my case , it doesn’t really bother me because socialising less has helped me archive a lot especially good grades..

Dear that shouldn’t bother you maybe you just an introvert and it’s hard to change from that
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I can literally relate so much haha, I don't really talk to anyone but my two closest friends at school. (I'm known as the cat-loving vegan potterhead geek to people who really know me.) I've got friends out of school and I wouldn't consider myself socially awkward but at school I just have this shell for some reason that I never leave.
omg yes! i'm also 'the vegan', whenever theres anything to do with animals, everyone instantly turns to me, etc! and I'm the lotr obsessed freak lol
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I only talk to one girl in university and she is by no means a close friend or a true friend.

I feel so alone. I see all these groups of girls on social media who have so many friends and I feel so jealous.

I've always have extremely social anxiety and depression. I never go out, I only go to uni and I barely speak to anyone.

I try to tell myself that I'm okay because I have my mum, brother and sister but sometimes I feel like it's not the same. I feel so alone. Anyone else like this?
I’m exactly like this, apart from I’m in sixth form.
There’s one girl that I talk to in 2 lessons but I dont talk to her during break or out of school.
I never go out, don’t speak to anyone and struggle with social anxiety and depression.
I only have my sister who’s a year older than me and my brothers and other sister who are 10+ years older and also my mother, and I agree that it’s really not the same.
Last night a girl (who’s supposed to be my friend but idk anymore) was posting loads on snapchat and it looked fun and whatever (I’ve just logged out of snapchat for a bit now I couldn’t deal with it 😂😂)but we need to realise that on social media, people’s lives are always going to seem better because they only post what they want other people to see.
I know my situation is a bit different because I’m not in uni but feel free to pm me if you need someone to talk to x
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I only talk to one girl in university and she is by no means a close friend or a true friend.

I feel so alone. I see all these groups of girls on social media who have so many friends and I feel so jealous.

I've always have extremely social anxiety and depression. I never go out, I only go to uni and I barely speak to anyone.

I try to tell myself that I'm okay because I have my mum, brother and sister but sometimes I feel like it's not the same. I feel so alone. Anyone else like this?
What uni is this?
Remember this is your life try not to focus so much on others. Friends are nice to have some may think they are essential but some friendships in uni most likely are attachments not real bonds. Family is very important they will always be there no matter what friends come and go.
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(Original post by username334839)
Sounds hot
oh my god i’ve seen it all
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(Original post by Sweetpeasw)
you wouldn't say that if you met us...

one's the class geek,
the other is the school eco warrior
and finally you get the crazy animal obsessed girl...

we're the clumsiest in the school and get weird looks from all the teachers
Being Geeky yet passionate about something is muy fuego!

To OP- give up on making friends, forget about it completely and concentrate on yourself. If the universe has plans- you will be sorrounded by people without realising as you prod along. Just go out there and do everything you are passionate about.
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