I know what I am saying doesn't apply to all guys, but this is the experience I have had a few times.
Guys can sometimes be so exhausting. No guys make the first move anymore (in terms of you already know each other before dating/not a night club setting). You have to clearly show that you like them in order to encourage them, but if you come across as too enthusiastic they get turned off. Every guy I have dated, I have asked out. Then once you are dating you have to be elusive and. tiptoe around so you can give the guy the chance to slowly like you, in case they get scared of commitment too early. It's so tiring.
Do any other girls have this experience, and guys what are your thoughts?