Hello, I write this post partially because i am genuinely interested, and partially because i plan to write and perform a speech about this for English.
Here is my school experience to start off.
I go to an all girls grammar school. (I class grammar schools as completely selective secondary schools that take students entirely based off the 11+, and are free, as opposed to some 'grammar schools' whereupon the vast majority of students are paying some form of fee for their education )
I have attended said grammar school for 5 years ish, here is a vague and simplified summary of my experiences:
1. We go to school to learn. At school the main focus is academia and doing well in it, and academics will always take top priority for the school and for most students.
2. However, the model student is one that can not only excel in academics, but also in extra-circular activities such as music or sport. It is generally considered that in order to do this you must be part of an out of school club.
3. MAIN PRO- We all do well. Statistically. 7s, 8s, and 9s (As and A*s) are the norm and the aim for the whole year. Yes, not everyone achieves this in every subject the vast majority do. A student not passing a GCSE happens about as often as a miracle.
4.SECONDARY PRO- The community is very accepting and forward thinking here (in my experience). For example, there is very little, if any bullying (occasionally just catty/petty fights within friendship groups that are resolved easily), acceptance and support of LGBT people, non tolerance of racism etc etc.
5.MAIN CON- Very high pressure environment. Due to the expectation of getting high grades there is a lot of pressure to do well. In everything. Many view getting lower than a 7 on a test as a failure. Personally i find myself falling into a dangerous mental state where I can start to base my self worth on my grades. Pressure from workload, teachers and even other peers is constant and high.
Please share any experience of your school life, how does it differ or how is it similar? Also feel free to comment your thoughts on my rough summary of my own school experience, or any questions about my school. Thanks