Is clitoral masturbation allowed in islam? Watch

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(Original post by WaqarAliShabir)
it bother's me because I don't want her to suffer on the day of judgement. She can get married which will Asalamulaikum, yes there is no accurate evidence where Islam allows Masterbation! But according to some knowledge (which I will share) I THINK that maybe Masterbation is permissible (in certain circumstances)...(read the following points but please do not act upon it before consulting a knowledgeable scholar!)

1) If a guy and girl have reached puberty n have sexual urges,but as for the guy he can not get married cos now a days we r in a time where guy has to wait n can only approach girl for marriage when he has a degree in something n a job too,as for girl, first of all not all girl get proposals, although sometimes even teenage girl may get proposals of settled guys who r 25 or bit above,it's not always the case for all girl, specially when media has played disgusting role that only a fair slightly tall stick thin girl is marryable! Alot of girls don't get approached for marriage cos of their skin color,height,body type etc "thanks" to media these days! Also even if such girls do get proposals (very less) r often of already married uncles, unstable guys,n basically not somebody u would wish ur sisters/daughters (if u have) to get married to! N yes Islam has given full right to both male n female to marry with someone they lyk n of match! Now I'm not saying here that if a guy who is not have body lyk Salman Khan then the girl should reject,n only wait for a Sharukh Khan to arrive,but it's not fair on the girl that this girl be forced to marry who she just doesn't feel desire towards in general ryt??? Y should girl settle for someone she not have sexual urges for, just cos of fear that she is not acceptable in society for marriage??? She has no heart? She has no right of lyking? N before u give me example Of Prophet Muhammad pbuh n His Wifes Hazrat Khadija n Hazrat Aisha,the marriage was of LYKING n NOT FORCED!
So in short those guys who r not in the state to propose n marry n those girls who not getting desired n lyked proposal for marriage,I think maybe they can masterbate,BUT taking care of the following...
2) if such guys n girls do not miss the Wajib 5 times Salah cos of this!
3) if such guys n girls first try to fast but even after that they feel the high need to do it!
4) if such guys n girls do not watch or listen "Haram" stuff,lower their gaze,but still they feel the urge to do it!
5) if such guys n girls generally follow all rules n regulations Of Islam,do everything possible to sincerely not masterbate but still find it hard eventually to control n do it out of helpnessness (they r human after all)!
6) if such guys n girls have an illness that they can't go on a normal daily life unless they release themselves,n yes such illness does exist n usually these r type of people who start get this desire way before puberty lyk at age of 2 even!!! Yes u can research! These type of people r actually sufferers they don't do it for pleasure,they do it cos they unforcefully get high urges! But yes it can be controlled by medication n Namaz! But if such guys n girls r unaware that they r ill,they try their best to not masterbate,but still end up doing it (cos they r helpless n not taking medication unknowingly) then I think maybe such guys n girls r not blameable! But ofcos if they know they r ill,n they don't take medication then they r responsible!
7) if such guys n girls who r not ill only do it maybe once in a blue moon n not make it habit

Allah Knows Best!
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(Original post by CuteAilen)
Hi

So yesterday first time ever i have give it a go to clitoral maturbation (nothing i did with vigina) to see if it actually works or not coz got told so many times that it can make anyone arouse even for those who hates maturbation so i did and in 15 hours i did it about 7 times because of the 1st time i felt really good.. i only last for 10 mins and just some lubrication happens but nothing too intense and still i am aroused but trying to control but seriously its very temptating... rn i am doing my coursework yet the arousal is forcing me to do it again and the lubrication is occuring itself. it takes just a minute for me to touch and it gets wet that quick so difficult for me to control. i then did it again when going to sleep. i am not sure if its allowed in islam and i am a muslim and 19 years old

Plz lemme know thnx
How's it going have you managed to balance when you do it and when you have to do other things
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Haram! Get married sister. The real thing is 100 times better. You won't want to leave the bedroom.
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Yes keeping good mastrubation am man many year I do mastrubation feel good healthy life can doing everyday am touch my **** ******* coming ***
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It’s HARAM sister !!!!! Every time when you feel the need don’t think about it stand up and have walk keep distracted ! don’t let these khafir people make you think “it okey” because it’s not! Don’t let this “small” sins piled up and get you in trouble when your time comes to face Gabriel
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Salaam 🤗 yes you are free to love and feel. What feels good and makes you smile is pure .
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You are right I was masturbating too but after I heard its haram I cried to god to forgive me and I left it but I can't control myself if I think to masturbate I'll just think about the hell and I don't do it
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