17 and never had a relationship?

Hi, I've been wondering why I can't seem to connect with anyone on a emotional level. I have had one night stands and had sexual relationships but its just something about me (straight female btw) that stops me from being able to get connected on an emotional level with somebody. It seems Im perfect for a one night stand as guys find me hot enough to have sex with but not to develop a crush on as something in my personality is unappealing to them. In fact there were some guys who lowkey had crushes on me from far away but as soon as they got to know me better, lost the attraction and started to like my other friend or something- and they haven't stopped liking her since getting to know HER, in fact if anything they like her(or my other friends) even more now. Another thing that happened is that a guy who I had a one night stand with slowly stopped liking me as he got to know me and my other friend and started liking her instead, slowly losing any attraction to me whatsoever, even when I started to try makeup for it physically (show more skin, look prettier, put more effort etc) It seems that although guys are initially attracted to me physically they lose that as they get to know me while it doesn't happen with other girls. Why is that? what is about me that does so ? Im really scared ill never have a relationship because of this please help.

Hi, I've been wondering why I can't seem to connect with anyone on a emotional level. I have had one night stands and had sexual relationships but its just something about me (straight female btw) that stops me from being able to get connected on an emotional level with somebody. It seems Im perfect for a one night stand as guys find me hot enough to have sex with but not to develop a crush on as something in my personality is unappealing to them. In fact there were some guys who lowkey had crushes on me from far away but as soon as they got to know me better, lost the attraction and started to like my other friend or something- and they haven't stopped liking her since getting to know HER, in fact if anything they like her(or my other friends) even more now. Another thing that happened is that a guy who I had a one night stand with slowly stopped liking me as he got to know me and my other friend and started liking her instead, slowly losing any attraction to me whatsoever, even when I started to try makeup for it physically (show more skin, look prettier, put more effort etc) It seems that although guys are initially attracted to me physically they lose that as they get to know me while it doesn't happen with other girls. Why is that? what is about me that does so ? Im really scared ill never have a relationship because of this please help.

Hi, I've been wondering why I can't seem to connect with anyone on a emotional level. I have had one night stands and had sexual relationships but its just something about me (straight female btw) that stops me from being able to get connected on an emotional level with somebody. It seems Im perfect for a one night stand as guys find me hot enough to have sex with but not to develop a crush on as something in my personality is unappealing to them. In fact there were some guys who lowkey had crushes on me from far away but as soon as they got to know me better, lost the attraction and started to like my other friend or something- and they haven't stopped liking her since getting to know HER, in fact if anything they like her(or my other friends) even more now. Another thing that happened is that a guy who I had a one night stand with slowly stopped liking me as he got to know me and my other friend and started liking her instead, slowly losing any attraction to me whatsoever, even when I started to try makeup for it physically (show more skin, look prettier, put more effort etc) It seems that although guys are initially attracted to me physically they lose that as they get to know me while it doesn't happen with other girls. Why is that? what is about me that does so ? Im really scared ill never have a relationship because of this please help.