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1) Frustratingly my background. Basically I am a middle class (privately educated) person who has lived and schooled as the only black person in my class/area. So I have found when meeting fellow black student or fellow Muslim students during fresher’s that I stick out as a bit of an outsider L, in how I dress, my interests or generally the way I am. They are all into basketball or hip-hop etc so I can’t really get involved in many conversations with them. Moreover every time I do talk about things we can mutually talk about they get quite bored easily and the conversation dies very quickly, even though I’m doing the best to keep it going they all seem quick to leave without making much effort.
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2) Moreover, I am quite introverted and someone who likes their own space now and again. I am not very loud neither one of much confidence so I find it difficult to strike up a conversation with big groups or either more Infuriatingly admit to my few acquaintances that I have no friends so that they can help me out because I’m pretty embarrassed to admit this fact I’m a loner. Coming from an all-boys school I really lack social skills around girls in particular, I always get shy and nervous around them so in fact I’ve found it difficult to talk to them let alone befriend them. Another thing is I honestly don’t find things people talk about funny. Whilst everyone chuckles in a conversation I’m there just trying to simile forcefully. Additionally I give off serious vibes (always looking sad) all the time, so when talking with people it doesn’t feel very natural nor fun for both, even though I’m attentive when talking.
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1) Frustratingly my background. Basically I am a middle class (privately educated) person who has lived and schooled as the only black person in my class/area. So I have found when meeting fellow black student or fellow Muslim students during fresher’s that I stick out as a bit of an outsider L, in how I dress, my interests or generally the way I am. They are all into basketball or hip-hop etc so I can’t really get involved in many conversations with them. Moreover every time I do talk about things we can mutually talk about they get quite bored easily and the conversation dies very quickly, even though I’m doing the best to keep it going they all seem quick to leave without making much effort.
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2) Moreover, I am quite introverted and someone who likes their own space now and again. I am not very loud neither one of much confidence so I find it difficult to strike up a conversation with big groups or either more Infuriatingly admit to my few acquaintances that I have no friends so that they can help me out because I’m pretty embarrassed to admit this fact I’m a loner. Coming from an all-boys school I really lack social skills around girls in particular, I always get shy and nervous around them so in fact I’ve found it difficult to talk to them let alone befriend them. Another thing is I honestly don’t find things people talk about funny. Whilst everyone chuckles in a conversation I’m there just trying to simile forcefully. Additionally I give off serious vibes (always looking sad) all the time, so when talking with people it doesn’t feel very natural nor fun for both, even though I’m attentive when talking.
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