my list is a bit more random than that... hehe... i gave up on not given the wrong impression and just wrote random things... I also require that my ideal date can juggle fire... will be well impressed if it happens to be that they can...
and re: emailing before... i don't think it ruins the fun, per sae, it heightens the anticipation... It means you look at their profile, get terrified, think about not turning up and then do it anyway...