I'm a 20 year old Dutch Atheist who has a LDR (Long Distant Relationship) with a 17 year old Brunei Muslim Girl. We have now for about a month, and we're happy with each other for now.
But as i'm sure you all noticed, i am unsure about our relationship, mainly because of the whole 'converting into Muslim to marry a Muslim girl' stuff. I haven't decided yet to do it or not, which of course comes with time and if our relationship holds to the point of marriage, or even coming togeter at all.
See, i love her, and respect her religion, but.. she is on times a bit.. 'desprite' (in her words) to make Me a Muslim, but she knows it will take time to come to a conclusion one way or another. I mean, we at least have lots of time to teach Me about her religion before i even need to make a decision.
I don't know how 'faithful' she is to Islam, and i also don't know if our relationship last as long as we (,or Her/I) hope to be. I have read some forums over Atheists Guys and Muslim Gals being togeter and asking the same question (sort of, in a different way/form, but ultimately much the same intension(s)).
Also, not meant as mean, disliking, or any other negativity about her, she isn't super beautiful (more on the chubby side, but, i believe she will be a real beauty later in the future!
Anyhow, any advice or feedback about My 'problem/unsureness'?
In advance: thanks!
(Ps: Sorry for the eventual misspelled words, or real good description over My problem, any questions regarding it, just ask and i'll try My best to provide a decent answer the best i can).
- Shadow.