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Basically I found out he is a follower of the whole redpill thing, views relationships as a manipulation game and brags about stuff that never happened with elaborate lies.
I looked up redpill stuff and I'm not happy to be with a manchild who buys that ********

What do I do?
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Go to a pharmacy and buy the blue pill
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Basically I found out he is a follower of the whole redpill thing, views relationships as a manipulation game and brags about stuff that never happened with elaborate lies.
I looked up redpill stuff and I'm not happy to be with a manchild who buys that ********

What do I do?



There's a lot of Bull**** masquerading itself as Redpill these days.

Most of it is no longer Redpill, or they have taken some Redpill concepts [which were real] and grossly exaggerated it and morphed into something else.

Most stuff you see advertised as Redpill nowadays is in fact Bluepill

I discovered redpill before all this reddit redpill and other crap which isn't really redpill.

In order to recover your boyfriend you need to convince him that his redpill is really bluepill dressed up as redpill which is no easy task.

tbh your bf probably can't be saved but i wish you good luck...
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Basically I found out he is a follower of the whole redpill thing, views relationships as a manipulation game and brags about stuff that never happened with elaborate lies.
I looked up redpill stuff and I'm not happy to be with a manchild who buys that ********

What do I do?
This 'red-pill' crap that people fill each other's heads with is just irritating to me..
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Wait wait what is redpill I've never heard of this
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Wait wait what is redpill I've never heard of this
They believe girls are evolutionary programmed to want to be treated like **** but have developed clever adaptive methods to deceive men.
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They believe girls are evolutionary programmed to want to be treated like **** but have developed clever adaptive methods to deceive men.
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Wait wait what is redpill I've never heard of this
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They believe girls are evolutionary programmed to want to be treated like **** but have developed clever adaptive methods to deceive men.
basically, a load of pseudoscience ******** that a cult-like group of pathetic men follow. if you disagree with them, they throw in buzzwords, such as ''beta'', ''cuck''..., at you to shut you up.
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Welcome to the dark side. No i'm not offering you black dik, but a philosophy Martin Luther King didn't dream of.

These men start with the assumption that all women are *****s, men are biologically superior and women enjoy being dominated. They believe that Darwin proves women use deceptive methods such as lying, monkey jumping (latching onto another guy) so they can find the 'alpha male', who is, of course, the man who takes the red pill. The red pill is the super dominant guy who doesn't put up with her crap and puts her back in her rightful place (a cage preferably).
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Welcome to the dark side. No i'm not offering you black dik, but a philosophy Martin Luther King didn't dream of.

These men start with the assumption that all women are *****s, men are biologically superior and women enjoy being dominated. They believe that Darwin proves women use deceptive methods such as lying, monkey jumping (latching onto another guy) so they can find the 'alpha male', who is, of course, the man who takes the red pill. The red pill is the super dominant guy who doesn't put up with her crap and puts her back in her rightful place (a cage preferably).


that's an example of bluepill rubbish masquerading as redpill

the majority of redpill stuff you see isn't redpill
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that's an example of bluepill rubbish masquerading as redpill

the majority of redpill stuff you see isn't redpill
What’s the real redpill stuff?
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that's an example of bluepill rubbish masquerading as redpill

the majority of redpill stuff you see isn't redpill
Ahh the No true redpiller fallacy
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wtf is going on
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What’s the real redpill stuff?

When it comes to dating, the word redpill is simply another word for the real truth. It is often harsh and hard to hear and goes against mainstream thinking. The bluepill on the other hand is comforting and encouraging and gives false hope to all.

Dating experiments as Very Handsome men are a prime example of redpill and the results often fly in the face of mainstream thinking. Mainstream thinking has it that personality is king and the key to any womans heart. Just be well dressed groomed/have a good job and fab personality and women will fall into your lap.

Mainstream thinking has it that arrogant good looking guys with lousey personalities and crap jobs will do much much worse than average guys with great personalities earning £45k+ a year etc ....but when you whip up a fake online dating profile as a handsome guy and an average guy and test out all this stuff you see that the handsome guy wins hands down everytime and that the majority of women are just lying though their teeth about all of this stuff

that Tinder experiment of the handsome serial child rapist is probably the most well known redpill experiment as that really went viral...........

dude still had PLENTY of options

meanwhile somewhere there's an average looking doctor who's got a fantastic personality and who's as funny as jimmy carr who can't even get a convo going on a dating site with an woman who is not a bot or a landwhale

that's an example of redpill......
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When it comes to dating, the word redpill is simply another word for the real truth. It is often harsh and hard to hear and goes against mainstream thinking. The bluepill on the other hand is comforting and encouraging and gives false hope to all.

Dating experiments as Very Handsome men are a prime example of redpill and the results often fly in the face of mainstream thinking. Mainstream thinking has it that personality is king and the key to any womans heart. Just be well dressed groomed/have a good job and fab personality and women will fall into your lap.

Mainstream thinking has it that arrogant good looking guys with lousey personalities and crap jobs will do much much worse than average guys with great personalities earning £45k+ a year etc ....but when you whip up a fake online dating profile as a handsome guy and an average guy and test out all this stuff you see that the handsome guy wins hands down everytime and that the majority of women are just lying though their teeth about all of this stuff

that Tinder experiment of the handsome serial child rapist is probably the most well known redpill experiment as that really went viral...........

dude still had PLENTY of options

meanwhile somewhere there's an average looking doctor who's got a fantastic personality and who's as funny as jimmy carr who can't even get a convo going on a dating site with an woman who is not a bot or a landwhale

that's an example of redpill......
Tinder is a hookup site though, not a representation of the real world or dating. All you’re given is pictures and a line or two so of course attractiveness gets the most matches. I did see that rapist experiment that was messed up, in real life that’d never work.


So basically that hot guys can always get girls? I wouldn’t have thought that isn’t a mainstream thought tbh, don’t most people know attractive people have better love life’s?

Or is it more “all women care about are looks because my personality is great but I can’t get a date so it must be a conspiracy” kind of thing?
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Tinder is a hookup site though, not a representation of the real world or dating. All you’re given is pictures and a line or two so of course attractiveness gets the most matches. I did see that rapist experiment that was messed up, in real life that’d never work.


So basically that hot guys can always get girls? I wouldn’t have thought that isn’t a mainstream thought tbh, don’t most people know attractive people have better love life’s?

Or is it more “all women care about are looks because my personality is great but I can’t get a date so it must be a conspiracy” kind of thing?

I've seen many similar [but less extreme] experiments on sites like pof/okcupid/badoo ....etc


redpill is simply another word for the real truth, and that is a lot of the stuff mainstream society and also women claim to value the most is not true at all...

I can remember back when I used to listen all that rubbish women tend to say about dating, it was extremely challenging and heaps of effort to even get a date let alone anything else......., I can remember following PUA too and doing hundreds of approaches [doing all that crap they say is supposed to make women like you] and like only having a few phone numbers to show for it..

having since wised up and worked hard on my appearance through gym, it is no longer mission impossible. Dating life is much easier [when I'm actually searching]. On saturday I walked into club for the first time since march. Didn't even approach anyone. A woman approached me and despite having crap game/chat I was kissing her. The only thing that seemed to throw things off was that she thought I was lying about my age or felt too "Adult" around me or something.

Sorry, but if I was still listening to advice from women or PUA i'd still be getting rejected like some kind of martian.

I had to develop my own methods from stuff I had learned doing experiments etc.
One of the things I do that no one seems to do is I screen girls hard...
By doing this you filter out women who have insufficient attraction for you and can concentrate on higher probability women....

and tbh yes, my personality used to be much better and it was so so much effort to get a date. I was socialising a lot and attending meeting friends websites and improved my social skills i could talk to a stranger for like 30 minutes and not have things get stale or boring. Couldn't do that anymore though, i'm well out of practice...........
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What’s the real redpill stuff?
Most men who believe in the red pill type stuff are the nice guys who got rejected for a long time while the hot girls went for complete phallus's. It's basically a kind of alt-right thinking i suppose.

There is certainly some truth to the red pill (i refuse to believe that women are not self aware enough to really know what kind of man they want) but it's mixed in with a lot of anti-feminist politics these days and some crap.

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Basically I found out he is a follower of the whole redpill thing, views relationships as a manipulation game and brags about stuff that never happened with elaborate lies.
I looked up redpill stuff and I'm not happy to be with a manchild who buys that ********

What do I do?
Personally i'm not sure why your angry unless you can point to specific behaviour which you don't like. Your essentially saying you can't be with somebody who disagrees with you.

Your boyfriends probably a bit dim but it's psychological and probably not coming from a place of harm.
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I've seen many similar [but less extreme] experiments on sites like pof/okcupid/badoo ....etc


redpill is simply another word for the real truth, and that is a lot of the stuff mainstream society and also women claim to value the most is not true at all...

I can remember back when I used to listen all that rubbish women tend to say about dating, it was extremely challenging and heaps of effort to even get a date let alone anything else......., I can remember following PUA too and doing hundreds of approaches [doing all that crap they say is supposed to make women like you] and like only having a few phone numbers to show for it..

having since wised up and worked hard on my appearance through gym, it is no longer mission impossible. Dating life is much easier [when I'm actually searching]. On saturday I walked into club for the first time since march. Didn't even approach anyone. A woman approached me and despite having crap game/chat I was kissing her. The only thing that seemed to throw things off was that she thought I was lying about my age or felt too "Adult" around me or something.

Sorry, but if I was still listening to advice from women or PUA i'd still be getting rejected like some kind of martian.

I had to develop my own methods from stuff I had learned doing experiments etc.
One of the things I do that no one seems to do is I screen girls hard...
By doing this you filter out women who have insufficient attraction for you and can concentrate on higher probability women....

and tbh yes, my personality used to be much better and it was so so much effort to get a date. I was socialising a lot and attending meeting friends websites and improved my social skills i could talk to a stranger for like 30 minutes and not have things get stale or boring. Couldn't do that anymore though, i'm well out of practice...........
They’re all online dating though, the first impression you make is based off how photogenic you are so before people get any chance to get to know personality they’ve already judged and swiped. It’s not like real life imo

Who decides this truth? Who verifies it as the “real” truth? especially with something as complex as emotion.


All our first impressions are based off physical appearance, so when approaching people it’s important. But in my experience when girls say personality is important it is more in reference to once you get to know someone, views can change. I was in love with a guy who was obese, not attractive at all, and frankly a horrible person but I was blind to all of that because I fell for him. We talked all day every day and at the time he was the most attractive person in the world to me. I assume this is what other girls mean when they say personality is most important 😂
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