Im a male, I have 2 groups of friends. Strangely enough ones all males and the other all females.
Basically I haven't seen the boys a while, I messaged saying we should do something. They said maybe go clubbing. Didn't hear anything and I find out thry went without me.
They used to be really nice but i have noticed a change in them recently. Its all about wearing designer labels and sleeping with girls- I get looked up and down. They seem to be getting these egos - I'm not a one for buying shoes at 300 hundred pounds (it's fine if you like that though) at 20 I thought you grow out all that! I'm not going to change who I am.
I suspect Im not cool enough anymore. Shame as I liked to go clubbing and have no else to go with! How should I deal with this!
What are the downsides?