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    I've liked this boy for literally 4 years (lol i know but true) , and recently he told me he liked a girl that by the way is in another country. I can tell he kinda likes her and he tells me how he FaceTime her and i reply as if I'm calm about it but in real life it's kinda upsetting. How do i move on? I want to still be friends with him and have him in my life but i need to get over the fact he doesn't like me in that way.

    We're friends with benefits but i asked him that if it was over whatever we had and he said no he doesn't want to stop what we had. I told him its hard as he likes someone and all that and i gave him reasons why we should stop. Fboy? I don't know. But ways to move on from a 4 year crush?
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    I've liked this boy for literally 4 years (lol i know but true) , and recently he told me he liked a girl that by the way is in another country. I can tell he kinda likes her and he tells me how he FaceTime her and i reply as if I'm calm about it but in real life it's kinda upsetting. How do i move on? I want to still be friends with him and have him in my life but i need to get over the fact he doesn't like me in that way.

    We're friends with benefits but i asked him that if it was over whatever we had and he said no he doesn't want to stop what we had. I told him its hard as he likes someone and all that and i gave him reasons why we should stop. Fboy? I don't know. But ways to move on from a 4 year crush?
    if you agreed that you were friends with benefits I don't think he is doing anything wrong. At least he was open and honest about his feelings for someone else. tell him how you feel about him, but since you are friends with benefits don't expect anything.

    I suggest you end it with him now that you know you want different things, and try and move on.
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