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    so i've been in a casual relationship for around 1,5 years now (I'm 15) and didn't really think anything serious of it. For me it was just a crush that developed into a really nice bond with a person who i could share anything with and who would always support me. This was all going well until he started lying to me a lot and i would find out about it myself and eventually confront him, and he would admit that he lied. At one point i told him that i wanted to take a break with the relationship so i could breathe and focus on myself, since at my age, i didn't want any commitments. He agreed but then continued acting like he normally would and wouldn't give me any space. Eventually when he went on holiday back to Russia, he had time to think about it and decided he wanted to end the relationship, and blamed it on me. He started to ignore me and was quite impolite for no reason, including on the first couple of days that we came back to school. Eventually we talked about what happened and decided to make up. My parents are against the fact that we've come back together and im not feeling great that i decided to continue things as well. I would tell him that i want to end things for the better, but i know for a fact that he's going to give me a hard time about it at school (our school is really small, so news gets around fast) and im sure these girls are going to rub it in my face, since they'll take any opportunity they can get to make me feel horrible. Another thing is that i might regret it and want things to go back to the way it was (although i will know that its not good for me). I'm stuck in a situation where im not sure what the right thing is to do, since im only 15 and i keep reminding myself that if i jsut let things be, it'll keep everything peaceful at school and i'll be able to focus on studying without the added drama. But at the same time i feel like im not comfortable in the relationship anymore and want some space.

    You're 15?! And you got this on your mind?!
    When I was 15 I was still watching Pokemon and thinking about when I'm gonna catch a pikachu not worrying about relationships

    Ah...... how times have changed....
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