I was not talking about a weird kid like being a freak, I meant a bit socially awkward.
So the nerd guy should not hope for the hot girl because she may not think he exists?
Most guys try to improve themselve. They try to like random rubbish that women like, so they can have something in common with the women. They take on a different personality to impress the girl. They save all the money and spend it on the girl to make her happy.
You see it is easy for girls because they are those that receive the attention. Guys have to do everything to get and keep her attention.
It’s easy for the beautiful, popular, sociable girls to get guys. It’s not easy for the girl equivalent of the nerd boy you describe, because the guys are deluded enough to think they can be with a 9/10 when they’re a 5 on a good day!
Nerd guy should be realistic, and find a girl with more in common with him but who doesn’t look like a model. Or they should stop whining about how hard girls are to get when they’re only going for unrealistic ones.