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Why do women want gender equality in the workplace, but not in dating?

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Original post by Wired_1800
I did not say that. I do not know your story so cannot comment on it until you share with me.

As i wrote in the previous post, some situations can occur with option 1 and the guy would probably have been an idiot.


I met this guy and we spoke for 4 hours. He knew I was interested because I told him. I don't think if he thought I was ugly because he did compliment me and told me he was attracted to me. Then after we did things he deleted me 2 days after. I guess he was just a fxckboy.
Original post by Less(e/o)n
That meme is utterly ludicrous. Why would a 10-year-old frequent a website like pornhub?


Firstly, I am not persuaded that you know how old he is. Secondly, I wouldn't be surprised about 10-year-olds using internet porn if they can get erections. Maybe I was a freak but I was already getting erections as a 10-year-old, I'm guessing you weren't (assuming you are more than 10, which I admit is an assumption).
Original post by loveleest
I met this guy and we spoke for 4 hours. He knew I was interested because I told him. I don't think if he thought I was ugly because he did compliment me and told me he was attracted to me. Then after we did things he deleted me 2 days after. I guess he was just a fxckboy.


He was an idiot. Your case is probably the first one where he was just trying to get into your sacred place. So he lied and deceived you.
Original post by queen-bee
Our biological makeup should be enough.


Really? :rolleyes: Proof?
Original post by Wired_1800
He was an idiot. Your case is probably the first one where he was just trying to get into your sacred place. So he lied and deceived you.


M3N R TR4$H.
situations like that is why girls get labelled "hoes"
Original post by loveleest
Women get called hoes. Why do you think some women have high body counts? Because they sleep with a guy that they intended to get into a relationship when he uses her just to get laid. The cycle keeps repeating and the women gets called a hoe. I ma not making women a "vctim" or whatever. I am saying what I believe is true.



Mind your own business.


Men get called hoes, slágs, whores etc too. The difference though is that women, in general, are offended when called it. Men tend to laugh it off.
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Original post by EpicBrum
Men get called hoes, slágs, whores etc too. The difference though is that women, in general, are offended when called it. Men tend to laugh it off.


Sigh. When guys get called its not the same. Lets not start this, please.
This has nothing to do with gender equality or the feminist movement. This is just women treating men like s*** and calling it feminism. I will always, and I know all my female friends do too, pay for or split the bill on the first date and any dates afterwards unless it's for a birthday or something. I think the idea that only men should propose is a load of c***. And holding doors open? Shouldn't everyone hold the door open for everyone? Also if yous aren't both putting effort into the sex the it's gunna be awful so that's on her not you.
Anyway I think this is a bit of a generalisation but I agree with you and know where you're coming from. It annoys me when girls do this too, especially while calling themselves feminists. This is not feminism. I do know girls like how you've described, but honestly they're not worth your time and I know plenty of girls that aren't 'nazi feminists' and 'men haters' who will happily spilt the bill on the first date and give you their coat if you're cold. Even though it'd probably be a tad on the small side
Original post by loveleest
sigh, I am not going to argue with "men" here that think asking a women out or proposing to a women is too difficult.
Do you find asking out a man or proposing to a man too difficult?
Original post by EpicBrum
Men get called hoes, slágs, whores etc too. The difference though is that women, in general, are offended when called it. Men tend to laugh it off.


To a man, getting laid regularly is an achievement.
To a woman, it’s a disgrace, not respecting yourself.
That’s the different, the intention behind the words. Men laugh it off because it’s light hearted, not whispered when you walk into a room or spat at you as an insult.
Original post by cat_mac
To a man, getting laid regularly is an achievement.
To a woman, it’s a disgrace, not respecting yourself.
That’s the different, the intention behind the words. Men laugh it off because it’s light hearted, not whispered when you walk into a room or spat at you as an insult.
It's seen as an achievement because a) women have lower sex drives b) women are far more picky than men.

Most men will have sex with any half decent looking woman. So it's not an achievement for a woman to get laid regularly, because it's so easy to do. That's why no one gives it respect. People generally don't give respect to things that are straight forward to achieve.

It's all about supply and demand - male sex drive is in plentiful supply, female sex drive is in lower supply. There's a mismatch, which means any woman who wants to get laid and is willing to drop her standards can do so at relative ease.
Original post by snowman77
It's seen as an achievement because a) women have lower sex drives b) women are far more picky than men.

Most men will have sex with any half decent looking woman. So it's not an achievement for a woman to get laid regularly, because it's so easy to do. That's why no one gives it respect. People generally don't give respect to things that are straight forward to achieve.

It's all about supply and demand - male sex drive is in plentiful supply, female sex drive is in lower supply. There's a mismatch, which means any woman who wants to get laid and is willing to drop her standards can do so at relative ease.


My issue isn’t with men being praised for getting laid, it’s with people using it as an insult against women. Judging someone because of how much or how little sex they have is childish, especially when it’s from other women.
Original post by cat_mac
My issue isn’t with men being praised for getting laid, it’s with people using it as an insult against women. Judging someone because of how much or how little sex they have is childish, especially when it’s from other women.
Plenty of women sleep around though and don't give a damn what others think.

The judging is more of a class issue - among working classes, women sleep around all the time and no one really cares. I find it's only among the middle class that people make an issue of it.

Also if people aren't getting sex themselves (male or female), they judge people who do.

Besides, men get judged in countless other ways. If a man walks into a room with makeup on, he would get laughed at in the face. No one bats an eyelid if women wear makeup. There are so many other examples where men are expected to act a certain way, you need to stop banging on about women's rights and women's issues. Men have it worse, it's just we have to "get on with life", "be a man" and not complain about it.
Original post by loveleest
M3N R TR4$H.
situations like that is why girls get labelled "hoes"


I disagree
Original post by Wired_1800
I disagree


It's why some girs do. It's a result of guys fking them over and using them :frown:
Original post by snowman77
Plenty of women sleep around though and don't give a damn what others think.

The judging is more of a class issue - among working classes, women sleep around all the time and no one really cares. I find it's only among the middle class that people make an issue of it.

Also if people aren't getting sex themselves (male or female), they judge people who do.

Besides, men get judged in countless other ways. If a man walks into a room with makeup on, he would get laughed at in the face. No one bats an eyelid if women wear makeup. There are so many other examples where men are expected to act a certain way, you need to stop banging on about women's rights and women's issues. Men have it worse, it's just we have to "get on with life", "be a man" and not complain about it.


Life isn’t the “battle of the sexes” you think it is. Women have problems, men have problems, it’s not the oppression olympics. Me talking about a way that women are judged isn’t implying men aren’t judged, we all have our issues. There are positives and negatives of being a women and being a man.

Reality isn’t the sjw third wave feminism or the meninist broflakes. Once you manage to get off the forums and talk to some real life women you’ll realise that the “war on men” you fear so much is something that lives on social media.
Original post by loveleest
It's why some girs do. It's a result of guys fking them over and using them :frown:


Some Girls need to wake up. You dont sleep with every man that you meet or fancy. You need to go back to traditional ways and make sure that the dude is worth allowing him to your sacred place.

Women need to stop playing victims. If you see dating as a game, then everything is fair in the game. If you are serious about dating, then dont play the game and look for a serious relationship and stick to him.
Original post by cat_mac
To a man, getting laid regularly is an achievement.
To a woman, it’s a disgrace, not respecting yourself.
That’s the different, the intention behind the words. Men laugh it off because it’s light hearted, not whispered when you walk into a room or spat at you as an insult.


Women need to be careful then
Original post by Wired_1800
Women need to be careful then


Careful? What, incase they slip and land on a d*ck?
Can’t we just respect that what someone does for their sex life is their own business and not act like it’s something to use as an insult?
Original post by Wired_1800
Some Girls need to wake up. You dont sleep with every man that you meet or fancy. You need to go back to traditional ways and make sure that the dude is worth allowing him to your sacred place.

Women need to stop playing victims. If you see dating as a game, then everything is fair in the game. If you are serious about dating, then dont play the game and look for a serious relationship and stick to him.


Yeah, I know but sometimes it isn't that easy. Like you would think the guy is into you but he is just lying to you. A lot of naive girls fall for it. It's also a hard rejection too.

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