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    I am a female and live with two guys. Moved in only two weeks ago

    One of them, the one I have spent the most time with, I find myself increasingly attracted to. Probably just a crush. I don’t know him well enough for it to be romantic feelings. I feel there is a sexual tension there. He’s a very nice guy

    It’s an awkward situation. Not only is he my roommate but we share a close mutual friend. I don’t want to risk the friendship with our mutual friend by allowing anything to happen

    How do I suppress these feelings?

    Instead of focusing on him, try to look at other guys. You can even try to go on a date once in a while with someone so you are aware of other attractive guys. But just saying, if after quite a while it doesn’t go away and you really feel something I’d talk to your mutual friend about it to see what they think and maybe give it a go. Good luck
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