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    Im 18 currently in the last year of a-levels and ive been worrying about my sexual orientation too much lately. I've recently been thinking about relationships and i never used to but somehow now ive been thinking about it too much. I've got ths mixed feeling of wanting a girlfriend (im a male) but yet at the same time i dont bare in mind i've never had a girlfriend before. I like to see myself as a humerous person yet with rude-like tendencies with no mean intent so its rude banter. People at my college find it funny and its what defines me. I've never been actively looking for a girlfriend because i am quite shy when it comes to meeting new people ( i am comfortable with people i already know and dont like to extend). Am i asexual or am i just being picky and my standards are too high and i need to lower them?

    Im chubby and on the way of losing weight and ive been called attractive a couple times before but i dont see it.

    Theres a girl in a relationship who called me handsome many times and we talk a lot but i find it weird since shes in a relationship and im not a homewrecker. but realistically shes the closes that ive wanted in a girl and wouldnt mind for her to be my girlfriend although it wont happen.
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    I think you won’t discover who you are with your sexuality until you get into a relationship. Don’t limit yourself by telling yourself that you’re asexual and never ever will have a partner, just give yourself some time and don’t worry about it- someone will be out there!
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    (Original post by ToothpasteTiger)
    I think you won’t discover who you are with your sexuality until you get into a relationship. Don’t limit yourself by telling yourself that you’re asexual and never ever will have a partner, just give yourself some time and don’t worry about it- someone will be out there!
    i appreciate your words of wisdom hopefully ill find the right girl who will miraculously enter my life

    Just like my friend who got 2 relationships from which both girls initiated it and he never had a girlfriend before
 
 
 
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