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    ok so i lost my virginity to a friend with benefits relationship... fast foward i got pregnant but i'm an A level student so i had to get rid of it( please don't judge) we used protection but it ripped soo... i was 2- 4 weeks pregnant but i didn't tell him i just blocked him. its been 3 months now and we still haven't had any contact, we were good friends and i was best friends with his brother however when i told his brother he didn't believe me and thought i was messing around, so i thought what was the point. i'm 18 and hes 23, we had talked about the consequences and he had said if anything like this happened he would want to know... so do i tell him or forget about him and move on?
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    If you tell him: You feel less guilty and he knows what happened and isn't left in the dark but he knows there's nothing he can do about it
    If you don't tell him: He moves on with his life, unaware that anything ever happened and you feel like this forever for not telling him
    You have to make your decision based on the situation and circumstances. Do you think that telling him is a good idea or would you prefer to keep him in ignorant bliss, bearing in mind what's done is done and you and he can't do anything but make sure he knows?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you tell him: You feel less guilty and he knows what happened and isn't left in the dark but he knows there's nothing he can do about it
    If you don't tell him: He moves on with his life, unaware that anything ever happened and you feel like this forever for not telling him
    You have to make your decision based on the situation and circumstances. Do you think that telling him is a good idea or would you prefer to keep him in ignorant bliss, bearing in mind what's done is done and you and he can't do anything but make sure he knows?
    but hes a muslim guy and is against termination... tbh whats done is done maybe in the future when there's less tension
 
 
 
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