But you haven't even chased after one?(Original post by loveleest)
No I haven't got anxiety.
Eventually I will get sick of constantly having to chase after guys and it just seems so difficult so yes I would rather die alone than to stress over dating
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- 04-02-2018 21:18
(Original post by Wilfred Little)
But you haven't even chased after one? -
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go to one of those custom made clothes websites online, and make a custom shirt saying "single and ready to mingle"
wear it with you wherever you go
if that doesn't work, then i'm sorry it's either a life alone or you start approaching guys -
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- 04-02-2018 21:23
(Original post by ANM775)
go to one of those custom made clothes websites online, and make a custom shirt saying "single and ready to mingle"
wear it with you wherever you go
if that doesn't work, then i'm sorry it's either a life alone or you start approaching guys -
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- 04-02-2018 21:25
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whats your take on all of this? -
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- 04-02-2018 21:27
(Original post by Wilfred Little)
Genuine question? -
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- 04-02-2018 21:38
(Original post by CleverSquirrel)
yes of course, i mean whats it like from a guys perspective, because for me, honestly, every time i thought a guy was right for me, they all had issues with commitment and taking things forwards, leaving me with feelings for a guy who didnt want me
With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life. -
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- 04-02-2018 21:43
(Original post by Wilfred Little)
With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life.
She's not.
Quite a while back there was this Asexual girl called sherlock and she had given up on men and was adamant on remaining single for the rest of her life and loveleest was one of the people trying to convince her not to give up on men and telling her that she would not be happy living like this. -
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- 04-02-2018 21:45
(Original post by Wilfred Little)
I think it's easy to tell when guys are only after one thing and if you want more then as someone else said set your boundaries early on, make it clear what you want and stick to it. Will probably meet more serious guys as you get older (as correct me if I'm wrong but based on your first post you seem in your teens/early 20s).
With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life. -
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- 04-02-2018 21:48
(Original post by ANM775)
She's not.
Quite a while back there was this Asexual girl called sherlock and she had given up on men and was adamant on remaining single for the rest of her life and loveleest was one of the people trying to convince her not to give up on men and telling her that she would not be happy living like this. -
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- 04-02-2018 21:48
(Original post by angelike1)
Not completely subjective.
99% of the population would agree that Henry Cavill is better looking than Jesse Eisenberg.
Massive level of objectivity in beauty - harsh but true. -
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(Original post by Wilfred Little)
I think it's easy to tell when guys are only after one thing and if you want more then as someone else said set your boundaries early on, make it clear what you want and stick to it. Will probably meet more serious guys as you get older (as correct me if I'm wrong but based on your first post you seem in your teens/early 20s).
With regards to the OP, she needs to look at herself and I'm not trying to be a **** by saying that. I don't think anyone believes she is genuinely OK with being single for the rest of her life.
yeah i get where youre coming from, but i think she kinda meant it in a 'id rather be single than getting screwed over' kind of way -
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- 05-02-2018 00:23
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Yeah, you’re right. Beauty is only subjective when it comes to 8’s and above.
So what I think is seven you might think is an 8 but neither of us would think someone around the 3-5 region is an 8+ -
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Could this possibly have to do with Valentine day
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- 05-02-2018 00:56
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It's subjective when you're compading two people of similar attractiveness.
So what I think is seven you might think is an 8 but neither of us would think someone around the 3-5 region is an 8+ -
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- 05-02-2018 01:01
Some of us just can't be arsed with the nonsense.
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- 05-02-2018 01:02
Maybe they dont think you're attractive. Men still approach women.
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maybe you're just not attractive enough for guys to want to make the move. guys might need to get to know your personality a bit more so it might be better if you take the initiative and go up to guys. i don't know if guys are getting lazier, perhaps they are because of tinder, but attractive girls will always having guys coming up to them. tbh you don't even need to be that attractive to pull in a bar/club. if you really don't want to go up and strike a conversation then at least make it more obvious to guys that you're interested in them. smile, hold eye contact, find an excuse to stand by them. you'll make it easier for them to approach but when they do, they'll think it was them that approached and did the hard work. so you don't have to worry about coming across needy. i think the reason why a lot of guys are now wanting women to make the first move is because women can be so fussy and can easily put you in the friend zone. women always have it easier when it comes to dating, so some guys just don't want to take the risk because they assume that the woman has loads of other options
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- 05-02-2018 01:18
sometimes tbh you only realise how great the single life when you enter a relationship lol
dont want some clingy girl taking my precious oxygen ygm and is in your face 24/7
when you are single your bank balance tends to look more healthy, you can have less stress as well
also you dont need a partner to be satisfied in life
inb4 "Men are trash"
Im 20 almost 21, never been on a date too but am I going to let that put me down
"absolutely ******* not*Last edited by toonervoustotalk; 05-02-2018 at 01:21.
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