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    (Original post by loveleest)
    Maybe it's just me but dating today, specifically for women seems so difficult. I really don't understand how women date today because I feel like the "dating culture" has changed. Guys now are expecting women to make the first moves, ask for dates etc. It's so hard to meet guys, and talk to them.
    So how do women even date ? I guess it might just be me who finds it incredibly difficult.
    I discovered that a Live streaming app called Bigo Live is the easiest way to find a date.
    You have to download it first on playstore I think.
    There are so many people on there who met their boyfriends/ girlfriends on it.
    Even women who are fat/ugly get asked out all the time. I've seen fat, unattractive men find partners on it too so it obviously works for a lot of people.
    A friend introduced me to it last year, I put my real picture on it not a fake picture and I get lots of men asking me out through messages they send on my private inbox and sending me their number but I'm not interested in meeting anybody but I think it's great for other people who are.

    You will get lots of men asking you out on it too. And it's an easier way for women to ask men out by sending them messages and their phone number by pm/dm.
    Try Bigo because it is guaranteed to work and it's better than doing nothing.
    I just watch people and get asked out so you can do the same or become a broadcaster where your chances of being asked out by loads of men are even higher.

    Another live streaming app is called Live.Me so it's good to try both but Bigo is better for finding a date.

    Also go to google and type Happn. It's a free dating site that introduces you to people in your local area. I didn't get many men contacting me on that in the beginning and I had to be the first one to contact one man on there who I met up with last year or he would never have contacted me first. Then after that the only time men contact me is when I play the crush game so that is a fun game to play. If you see any men you like you should contact them first by clicking on the red heart and don't wait for them to contact you first because I would never approach a man on the street either but I did on Happn.
    It's so much easier for women to contact men first on that.

    People are always saying dating sites don't work for them but their not going to work for everybody so it's just luck if it's does for some people.
    On all dating sites I've tried there are so many unattractive men on it who are not my type but on happn nearly all the men were good looking but that was in the area I lived in so I don't know what it will be like where you live.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Men always approach you but never ask you out. There must be something wrong with you
    No, I hardly get approached and I've never been asked out. Thanks!
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    (Original post by Judge Jules)
    I discovered that a Live streaming app called Bigo Live is the easiest way to find a date.
    You have to download it first on playstore I think.
    There are so many people on there who met their boyfriends/ girlfriends on it.
    Even women who are fat/ugly get asked out all the time. I've seen fat, unattractive men find partners on it too so it obviously works for a lot of people.
    A friend introduced me to it last year, I put my real picture on it not a fake picture and I get lots of men asking me out through messages they send on my private inbox and sending me their number but I'm not interested in meeting anybody but I think it's great for other people who are.

    You will get lots of men asking you out on it too. And it's an easier way for women to ask men out by sending them messages and their phone number by pm/dm.
    Try Bigo because it is guaranteed to work and it's better than doing nothing.
    I just watch people and get asked out so you can do the same or become a broadcaster where your chances of being asked out by loads of men are even higher.

    Another live streaming app is called Live.Me so it's good to try both but Bigo is better for finding a date.

    Also go to google and type Happn. It's a free dating site that introduces you to people in your local area. I didn't get many men contacting me on that in the beginning and I had to be the first one to contact one man on there who I met up with last year or he would never have contacted me first. Then after that the only time men contact me is when I play the crush game so that is a fun game to play. If you see any men you like you should contact them first by clicking on the red heart and don't wait for them to contact you first because I would never approach a man on the street either but I did on Happn.
    It's so much easier for women to contact men first on that.

    People are always saying dating sites don't work for them but their not going to work for everybody so it's just luck if it's does for some people.
    On all dating sites I've tried there are so many unattractive men on it who are not my type but on happn nearly all the men were good looking but that was in the area I lived in so I don't know what it will be like where you live.
    Hmm, I am not too sure about online dating though. Most guy just want a fling.
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    I wish some girl talk to me as well. I want to chat with a girl
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    Join dating sites, ask when they're taking you for a drink, turn up for drinks. That's literally it. I was too lazy to sit around waiting for men to make the first move - everyone fears rejection.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    Hmm, I am not too sure about online dating though. Most guy just want a fling.
    That's not necessarily true as most men are looking for a long term relationship too. Plus men who approach on the street, club or anywhere could only be after a fling too.
    I used to get some men approach me on the street years ago and say I don't want a relationship but I just want to sleep with you.
    I was always polite and said No when I should have just told them to **** off like most other women would have. Then I'd be angry with myself when I got home or the next day for not telling them off. It always made me feel like I'm not worth anything or not important or that I'd always be single.
    It's a disgusting thing for any man to say to a woman, maybe in a club they can get away with it but no man should approach women on the street and say that.
    Sometimes whenever men would say hello to me or ask me out on the street I would look really angry and ignore them or not say hello
    because I thought they were going to say the same thing to me or I'd flake on dates because I'd think maybe they were not being serious and just wanted a fling too but were not saying it.
    So just because I've always been approached on the street it doesn't really count if they say disgusting things like that as it's not flattering at all and puts me off men. I used to get men pulling their car over to ask me out and one time a man in his car asked if he could pay me, he could see that I was upset by that and apologised straightaway but I never wore short skirts or revealing tops or makeup so I don't know why they'd do that but I don't know about other women but I'm sure some have had similar experiences or worse so I'm not surprised some women don't like men approaching them on the street and as for women approaching men on the street for a date I never would because I'm not very confident plus some men do think women who approach them first are ****s or easy and will tell all their friends this but men want you to believe they wouldn't think that and they like the fantasy that women will come to them so they don't have to do any work.


    As for dating sites
    It depends on which one's you use and always write in your profile that you're looking for a long term relationship so the men who only want a fling will not contact you as that's what I've always done on dating sites so that I don't attract those types.
    But there's no harm just signing up with them and finding out if it works.
    Happn is a good one to try even if it didnt work you have nothing to lose by signing up with that and others.

    As for Bigo Live you can just start off by watching other people on it and see if you like it as you can also make new friends on there or even make money for doing nothing if you become a broadcaster.
    Before i joined I never knew live streaming apps were an easy way to get dates but they are from what I've seen.
    At first I didn't like it but the next day I started really getting into it because my friend showed me the right people to watch.
    If you decide to try it and you don't see any English people on it you'll think it's boring as this is what people tell me when I show it to them on my mobile phone and they always say there's no English on it so i have to tell them there are a lot of them on it but their sometimes hard to find or it depends what time they come on as some of them will be working so they come on in the evening but when you do find them that's when it gets interesting.
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    (Original post by Judge Jules)
    I discovered that a Live streaming app called Bigo Live is the easiest way to find a date.
    You have to download it first on playstore I think.
    There are so many people on there who met their boyfriends/ girlfriends on it.
    Even women who are fat/ugly get asked out all the time. I've seen fat, unattractive men find partners on it too so it obviously works for a lot of people.
    A friend introduced me to it last year, I put my real picture on it not a fake picture and I get lots of men asking me out through messages they send on my private inbox and sending me their number but I'm not interested in meeting anybody but I think it's great for other people who are.
    Why does this feels like a commercial advert

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    (Original post by Judge Jules)
    That's not necessarily true as most men are looking for a long term relationship too. Plus men who approach on the street, club or anywhere could only be after a fling too.
    I used to get some men approach me on the street years ago and say I don't want a relationship but I just want to sleep with you.
    I was always polite and said No when I should have just told them to **** off like most other women would have. Then I'd be angry with myself when I got home or the next day for not telling them off. It always made me feel like I'm not worth anything or not important or that I'd always be single.
    It's a disgusting thing for any man to say to a woman, maybe in a club they can get away with it but no man should approach women on the street and say that.
    Sometimes whenever men would say hello to me or ask me out on the street I would look really angry and ignore them or not say hello
    because I thought they were going to say the same thing to me or I'd flake on dates because I'd think maybe they were not being serious and just wanted a fling too but were not saying it.
    So just because I've always been approached on the street it doesn't really count if they say disgusting things like that as it's not flattering at all and puts me off men. I used to get men pulling their car over to ask me out and one time a man in his car asked if he could pay me, he could see that I was upset by that and apologised straightaway but I never wore short skirts or revealing tops or makeup so I don't know why they'd do that but I don't know about other women but I'm sure some have had similar experiences or worse so I'm not surprised some women don't like men approaching them on the street and as for women approaching men on the street for a date I never would because I'm not very confident plus some men do think women who approach them first are ****s or easy and will tell all their friends this but men want you to believe they wouldn't think that and they like the fantasy that women will come to them so they don't have to do any work.


    As for dating sites
    It depends on which one's you use and always write in your profile that you're looking for a long term relationship so the men who only want a fling will not contact you as that's what I've always done on dating sites so that I don't attract those types.
    But there's no harm just signing up with them and finding out if it works.
    Happn is a good one to try even if it didnt work you have nothing to lose by signing up with that and others.

    As for Bigo Live you can just start off by watching other people on it and see if you like it as you can also make new friends on there or even make money for doing nothing if you become a broadcaster.
    Before i joined I never knew live streaming apps were an easy way to get dates but they are from what I've seen.
    At first I didn't like it but the next day I started really getting into it because my friend showed me the right people to watch.
    If you decide to try it and you don't see any English people on it you'll think it's boring as this is what people tell me when I show it to them on my mobile phone and they always say there's no English on it so i have to tell them there are a lot of them on it but their sometimes hard to find or it depends what time they come on as some of them will be working so they come on in the evening but when you do find them that's when it gets interesting.


    She has some weird logic going on in her head

    A guy on dating site is just looking for a fling/sex ...but a roadman who waltzes upto her in the street is looking for a long term monogamous relationship?

    https://tinyurl.com/ybus59x4
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    In response to OP.

    I don't date no more. so there is no struggle involved.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    Maybe it's just me but dating today, specifically for women seems so difficult. I really don't understand how women date today because I feel like the "dating culture" has changed. Guys now are expecting women to make the first moves, ask for dates etc. It's so hard to meet guys, and talk to them.
    So how do women even date ? I guess it might just be me who finds it incredibly difficult.
    Don't always wait around for the guy to make a move,altho as a woman I would prefer If a guy did. Go out and enjoy life,meet great new people,online dating,or maybe ask a friend to introduce you to a potential date. Endless possibilities
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    If I really like the guy and he hasn’t initiated anything yet, I’ll make the first move.

    You just need to get out there. You only live once, make the most of it.
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    That’s not guys anymore believe it or not.
    But girls are truly changed I don’t mean to generalize but many of them expect boys to be like a superman to provide thing that their father couldn’t provide for them
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    I finished a long term relationship with my girlfriend last week as she was really cold with me . I was thinking about a nice proposal but things just jeopardized very quickly as i felt she has lost her interest in our relationship
    Long story short , expectation hurts , I really loved her and I expected her to love me as much as i did
    But the more I tried the less I achieved.
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    Well, chivalry's dead and modernity killed it.

    I am a bit old fashioned in that I want to take good care of the girl I'm into. But this has blown right in my face many times before. Either the girl is indifferent (which is okay tbh) or, worse, they realise you'll do everything for them and they take advantage of you and consider you a sucker.

    So cold, indifferent mother****er it is. Friends + porn > *****es. Sorry not sorry.
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    I am a guy and I don't know how I got here, but I will give my two cents. I am personally looking for a traditional woman, being 20 already I have had nothing but problems finding a woman who meets my simple desires. Why is it so hard to find women who are a healthy weight (not obese), dress aesthetically (not like a whore), look at least semi-attractive, have a personality/aspirations beyond microwave tofu, and most of all, is a virgin. I want to settle down and have a traditional death do us part old style marriage with children, and I will not settle unless the already previously stated 5/5 is met. Out of everything I stated most women I talk to only usually have 3 out of the 5 or less. I may find for example a 19 year old girl who looks great and with a great personality, (who I met in a Christian church) but she lost her virginity at 16 with "some guy who doesn't matter"
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    No, I hardly get approached and I've never been asked out. Thanks!


    I know you won't approach but you're really not helping yourself much but not approaching

    an increasing number of girls are either willing to make the first move, or make it plainly obvious to a guy that they like them, ..and other girls ARE your competition.......

    In primark today in the que some girls were looking at me a lot and one of them was urging her mate to approach me. She almost done it in the end, but I guess shyness just about overcame her ...so she just started giving me this strong come over here and talk to me look

    I kinda pretended I didn't realise.
    The girl was quite attractive but in all honesty probably was like half my age.....
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    I know what you mean, dating seems hard these days, but I've heard guys say the same too. I think partly because of dating apps people don't give others a proper chance, they just move on to the next one.
    I rarely get approached, but then I don't really go out often. I've asked guys out before, so it isn't like I expect them to do all the work. Probably the best way to meet guys is through friends or doing hobbies, then you'll have something in common.
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    She has some weird logic going on in her head

    A guy on dating site is just looking for a fling/sex ...but a roadman who waltzes upto her in the street is looking for a long term monogamous relationship?

    https://tinyurl.com/ybus59x4

    https://youtu.be/x_oQqCFVYHM
    This is a bloke called Jester but on You Tube he calls himself Rockel French. He always records people from Bigo Live and puts it on You Tube then people argue with him about that andvtell him to take it down. The best thing about Bigo for me are the arguments people get into, I'm not interested in finding a boyfriend or making friends on it just watching people having funny arguments That's what makes it so interesting and funny to watch. But there's all types of different people on it doing different things.
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    Thanks for some of the replies, Although I have absolutely 0 urge to date so it doesn't really matter for the advice

    Can a mod please shut down this thread?
 
 
 
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